In life, how to politely refuse a friend's request to borrow a car?

This is still based on the relationship between the borrower and you, so consider how to refuse each other, otherwise it will hurt your feelings.

I often see a label on the back cover of many people's cars, which says, "Neither the car nor the wife can borrow it." Although it looks funny, the appearance of this joke proves that most people have such troubles in our lives. I belong to a person who doesn't have a car and don't have so much troubles, but I often see friends facing such problems. I can share his solutions with you.

If it is a person with ordinary relationship, he will ask the other party when to use it first, and when the other party finishes speaking, he will frown and say, "Hey! I'm really sorry, it just happened that we got better that day and went out to play with friends. It is estimated that we will not be free in those days. " Followed by repeatedly saying sorry, but also give each other a car rental number, so that people can rent a car if they need it urgently.

If the borrower has a good relationship with him, he always says, "You know your sister-in-law's temper, I can lend you money, but I really can't borrow the car, otherwise I don't think I can even get into the house." Although the relationship is good, but friends have put words to this point, you can't force others to lend it to you! Afterwards, I will find an opportunity to invite friends to dinner, which can be regarded as easing the relationship.

Another kind is that a relative borrows a car. Usually, he refuses it directly, saying, "I never borrow my car. Other things can be discussed, except this one." Because once you set this precedent, countless people will follow you to borrow cars. As long as you all refuse, after a long time, everyone will know that your car is not easy to borrow, and no one will embarrass you.