Does the woman pay attention to the wedding ceremony? An introduction to the etiquette of the wedding ceremony

China has been a country that pays great attention to etiquette since ancient times, and etiquette cannot be underestimated in the important matter of marriage. Whether it is the attention paid to those who are getting married or the etiquette of those who are sending off relatives, they cannot be underestimated. So do you know whether the person who sends the bride off is particular about sending off her bride? What are the etiquettes for seeing off the bride? Let’s take a look at the following article!

Is the person who is sending off the bride’s bride particular about it?

Is it particular about who the woman chooses to send off her bride? Generally speaking, the woman’s immediate uncle is responsible. If you really don’t have a direct uncle, just look for the nearest elder. But not just anyone can send someone a bride. The person must look dignified, behave generously, have a position of authority, and be able to hold his own. However, if the woman does have a close uncle, no matter how vulgar his appearance or how obscene his behavior is, he must come forward to see her off, otherwise he will be ridiculed and will not be able to hold his head high for the rest of his life. This kind of person needs short-term training to teach him various rules until he is familiar with them. On the day of his appearance, he can still hold up on the stage.

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Things to note when arranging the person sending the bride off

1. In some places, there may be particularities in arranging the total number of people and the odd and even numbers of men and women. We young people generally don't understand this very well. It depends on the local wedding customs, and people of that generation are also careful.

2. Generally, priority is given to immediate family members, that is, grandfather, grandma, father, mother’s biological brothers and sisters or their children, such as elders. Generally, grandfather can send relatives, and then uncles, uncles, and uncles. These are the last. Close people, but uncles and uncles rarely make arrangements. The elders go as distinguished guests. As representatives of the elders, they sit at the head table and are treated with more attention. They come forward to communicate with the male guests.

3. Then there are people of the same generation. Men usually go with their elder brothers, younger brothers, cousins, and cousins ??as guests; women usually arrange for sisters, cousins, cousins, and bridesmaids. ; Generally, sisters who are older than you are not arranged;

4. In addition, your good friends, best friends or classmates can arrange to see off the bride, or serve as bridesmaids or guests. Generally, it is best to arrange the total number of men and women in an even number, and it is best to arrange the number of men and women in an even number.

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Etiquette for sending off a bride at a wedding

The send-off person should walk behind the bride’s car and dress elegantly and appropriately. Today's society has advanced, and those who are getting married usually prepare several cars for the bride-to-be. When they arrived near the groom's house, the bride-to-be stopped because they had to wait for the groom to send someone to pick them up. Naturally, such a noble person cannot walk to the man's house by himself. The man usually waits nearby early. As soon as the bride-to-be arrives, someone will set off firecrackers to tell the man's family that the bride-to-be has arrived.

However, the man did not take the bride-to-be to his own home, but to a neighbor's home not far from the man's home. Because after the bride gets off the sedan or gets off the sedan, the groom’s juniors and sisters want to make fun of her, and the bridegroom senders don’t like to see people making fun of the bride. In addition, there are also specialties when seeing off a bride when entering the door. Those welcoming a bride should stand on the left side of the door and stretch out their hands to make a gesture of inviting them in. If there happens to be someone on the right side of the door at this time, the bride-to-be will never enter because it is called "black dog drilling into the crotch".

When the bride-to-be is welcomed to sit down at the large square table, the person accompanying the guests will keep smoking and saying some kind words, for fear that any inappropriate words will mess up the happy event. Of course, these guests are also very particular. They are all prominent figures in the groom's family, well-dressed, good-looking, and eloquent. This also represents the dignity of the man’s family.

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Banquet Etiquette for Weddings and Farewells

There are also many things to pay attention to before the banquet. When the dishes are served, the guests should be the first to raise their chopsticks and say "please", but they won't move until the person sending them off takes the chopsticks. The bride-to-be can only move one chopstick at a time and cannot eat wholeheartedly. Of course, the bride-to-be should drink alcohol, but she should not toast, but sip in small sips.

The speech during the dinner was also very measured. You can't talk too much or not say anything, and you can't eat too much or not eat. If the person who sends the bride is always serious and condescending, the atmosphere will seem extremely dull, but if the person who sends the bride is too casual, it will also make the man’s family laugh. Nowadays, many people don't know so many etiquettes. When the guests see off their relatives, they will say, "We are young and don't know what the details are. Please be considerate to the relatives." And those who send relatives off are polite, saying that it’s a new era, and none of us should be particular about it.

The banquet to entertain relatives and send off their relatives is long and has to wait until all the drinkers have dispersed. As soon as the banquet is over, the person sending off the bride will say a lot of polite words to the guests, such as the child is still young and not sensible, please ask the husband's family to be more considerate in the future, etc. In addition, the senders have to go to the groom's house to say goodbye to the bride, and they also say the same things, such as don't miss home, live a good life with others, etc. The bride must be delivered to the door, but without tears, to prove that the bride is happy in this new home.

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The above is an introduction to the etiquette of the married woman who is sending her relatives off.