A truly powerful person has "self-healing ability"

You have to believe that most skin injuries will heal themselves.

Most people born after 60 s and 70 s have the experience of chopping wood and mowing grass.

When I was a child, I was often cut by grass and my fingers were often "dirty". But after a while, the wound will scab and then become a scar. Some scars are completely gone after a year or two, which is really impressive.

Mother said, "Dude, what is a little blood?"

Yes, I suffered a lot when I was a child, but I am not afraid of suffering when I grow up. On the contrary, those who are afraid of being heavy can't lift their heads if they suffer a little, and the injured place is always difficult to heal, even if it heals, it is a "dull pain".

The ancients said, "Don't wait for three days, treat each other with a scratch."

A truly strong person has "self-healing ability". Put away his blx and be a man with a strong heart. Pain is a spring. When you are strong, the pain will shrink back.

02

You can't heal yourself and no one can save you.

On my way to work the day before yesterday, I met a young beggar through the underground passage.

He was about seventeen or eighteen years old, squatting on the ground in his school uniform, with a piece of paper in front of him: My home is in a county town, and I need 50 yuan on my way home because my wallet and hands and feet were stolen.

To tell the truth, beggars nowadays are really annoying. Most of them muddle along under all kinds of poor excuses. Perhaps, this man in school uniform is such a person. He will travel here today, return a street tomorrow, and continue to ask for travel expenses. His income is more than that of ordinary migrant workers.

The man buried his head very low and didn't speak. I don't know if I'm afraid of spill the beans or really feel inferior.

Suddenly, the man shed sad tears. His shoulders are shaking. It seems that he really needs money and needs to go home.

The onlookers came and went, but no one gave him money. Fifty dollars is not much, but it is not easy to make money. Not everyone is willing to give.

Reality tells you that the method of pretending to be poor is out of date. When you reach out your poor hand, others just laugh at you and don't really help you.

If I lose my wallet and mobile phone elsewhere, I can work in a nearby restaurant. As long as I am willing to work, there must be good people to take me in, and I can earn money by working.

03

The strong, take time as the best medicine.

There are several proverbs in India: "No matter who you meet, he is the right person;" No matter what happens, it is the only thing that will happen; No matter when things start, it is the right moment; If it's over, it's over "

Time will tell you that no matter who you meet, it's fate. The person who hurts you is actually the person who comes to cross you. For example, someone slanders you and makes you angry. After a while, you can control your inner anger and find that the way to keep yourself from getting angry is to accept "malicious words."

Many things are easier to accept than to change, but many people are just unconvinced and unwilling to accept them.

Learning to fight against pain is a skill, and letting go of pain is wisdom and greater skill. The strong have learned to "take pleasure in suffering" and live like an ascetic.

You should learn to accept pain, malice, injury, hatred, parting, pessimism and failure, and then let it go. Really, as time goes on, you will find that what you used to do is so funny.

People you hated when you were a child will become the best playmates later; Students who have sworn enemies with you will think of his goodness after leaving school; People who compete with you in the workplace are actually forcing you to grow up.

Everything that happens to you is not accidental, but something that must be experienced. As the saying goes, "stretching your head is a knife, and shrinking your head is a knife." Don't avoid, accept and face bravely, everything will pass and everything will be calm.

Don't worry, take your time, and you will become stronger. The scar on the skin will turn into a small piece of "crystal clear" skin, which looks hard; The vicissitudes of your heart will gradually disappear with the passage of time, or remain buried in your heart, becoming a kind of "accumulated strength".

People who have the ability to heal themselves are good at using time and handing over all unpleasant and painful things to time. It's no big deal. They'll get over it after a while.

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The strong win in self-healing; The weak lose in "self-harm".

In the hospital, I saw this scene: an old man, with the help of a nurse, stood up slowly. The old man was afraid, but the nurse kept saying words of encouragement. After several efforts, the old man finally stood up and his life was reborn.

In fact, the elderly can stand up, and the key is to rely on themselves. In his mind, there is a potential ability-the desire to survive.

There is such a question: when does a person run fastest? The answer is "when life is threatened".

When your life is threatened, you will run hard and stay away from harm. If this force is used in "starting a business as an official", how can it not be successful?

Those who are weak and incompetent are actually "giving up on themselves", not really hopeless. When a person's heart becomes gloomy, he is actually abusing himself.

If you cure yourself, you win. No matter how difficult you are now, you won't be afraid or stop.

Be a man with light in his heart, and you will find stars in the dark and flowers in full bloom in winter.

Take pain as a part of life, not resistance; Think of yourself as your own ferryman, instead of waiting for others to cross you. After a few years, you will also become a strong man, leaving people of your age behind.

Since you are doomed to be helpless, run with tears in your eyes.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

The pictures in this article are from the Internet.