The reason why women don't contact you

First, I have no feelings for you. There are indeed some women who don't contact you actively because they don't like you. But this is not wrong. It's better than those women who don't like you and keep your appetite changing. Then you are the spare tire. A woman who takes you as a spare tire will not contact you on her own initiative most of the time, but when she needs your help, she will definitely contact you again and become diligent. But women who have no feelings for you at all and don't treat you as a spare tire are generally less likely to explicitly refuse others in their daily lives. Therefore, it is also very tactful for her to refuse your kindness. She will not say it directly, but show it with actions. Second, she is trying to blend in with her emotions. Sometimes women like you and will deliberately not contact you. This trick is called playing hard to get. It is a clever move for a woman to face a man who pursues herself. Generally speaking, this kind of woman is pursued by a man, even if she likes him very much, she will not promise him immediately, because such a woman knows that it is too easy to get and will not cherish it, so they always give you a cold shoulder for a few days before agreeing to you. Third, they value reserve most, which is rare among modern women. Older women often have this mentality, feeling that being a woman can't take the initiative for men. Otherwise, the neighbors will poke their spine and say that this woman is upside down and rushed up. You know, public opinion is fiercer than tigers, and such gossip is very harmful to women. In order to protect themselves or because women are naturally reserved, they will not take the initiative to contact you. Fourth, the feelings are in place. The ancients said, "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water." I admit that most interpersonal relationships in modern society are maintained by frequent contact, but Uncle Qing thinks that true friendship does not need to be maintained deliberately. To tell the truth, it may be difficult to meet such friends in one's life. Most people's so-called "friends" are nothing more than false friendship between flowers and meat in a wine pool. Such people will naturally fade away without contact. When you meet a lifelong confidant, your feelings will be in place. Even if we haven't been in touch for many years, we won't be embarrassed and uncomfortable when we meet again. Uncle Qing's conclusion: women have neither blacked you out nor contacted you actively, which is nothing more than these four reasons! In fact, there are many reasons why women don't contact you actively. Doesn't necessarily mean I don't have feelings for you. But the woman who only contacts you when she needs your help must not like you. Men must distinguish the difference between the two. Finally, Uncle Qing wishes everyone can find a bosom friend who can communicate with each other without contact. The reason why women don't contact you 2 1, dare not take the initiative to find you. Girls basically think a lot and care too much about what men think of her. Girls take the initiative to find you. Is it appropriate to send messages at this time? I want to know whether you are eating or playing with friends. Why don't I bother you alone? If she doesn't get a timely reply after sending the message, she will wonder if the topic she just talked about is not of interest to you. Or men ignore it directly, so girls dare not contact you actively. 2. shy. As we all know, girls are emotionally passive. When facing the person you like, you dare not show your feelings too much, for fear that men will laugh at her. As girls, they are not reserved at all. Slowly, this shy girl will not take the initiative to contact you. When you find that you are interested in this girl, you must confess it in time, otherwise you won't say it, and she will be embarrassed to say it, and you won't have a result. 3. Take the initiative as a contest. There is a saying in feelings that whoever takes the initiative will lose. In fact, this sentence is one-sided, but many girls believe that if a man likes her, he will definitely take the initiative to find her. If girls take the initiative, they will feel that they are at a disadvantage in this relationship, and they will not be cherished if they take the initiative for a long time. I don't like you at all. If a man finds that a girl never replies to himself or takes the initiative after she expresses her mind, there is no need to disturb others. Girls don't like you and won't contact you on their own initiative. In fact, no one in the relationship actively lost, but as a man, he should be braver than a woman, or he will miss it. Don't guess the girl's heart. Even if he fails, there will be no loss. The reason why women don't contact you 3 1. Pretend it doesn't matter, but they will reply to your message as soon as possible. Maybe you see a novel thing and habitually ask her some opinions and ideas. She will express her views and remarks at the first time, but every sentence will not deviate from the subject. She won't take the initiative to talk to you, but she remembers everything you said. I will reply to you in time, but she will not be very active and enthusiastic. Xiaoqing is such a girl. She likes Xiao Tao, but when she heard that Xiao Tao was pursuing other girls, she left him. She won't take the initiative to contact Chu Xiaotao when she doesn't want to know what kind of person he is. She knows that women should be reserved. If a woman doesn't reply to you the first time, it doesn't mean that you like you, but that you like you very much. It is so abnormal to have doubts. Second, the more I care about you, the more I want to know your mind. Sometimes women always want men to be more active. The more she cares about you, the more she wants to know if you really love her. It is possible that she will deliberately give you a cold shoulder, and then see your reaction and test your sincerity. When Yanyu met Mo Yun, she liked this man very much and was very enthusiastic about him, but Mo Yun never said that she liked her. She always feels that she has been so positive and has not lived well, and she has a feeling of being turned upside down. Yu Yan decided to give Leng Yun a cold ink to see his reaction. If he loves himself, he will have a sense of crisis and will take the initiative to confess. In love, women always hope that they can be taken care of by men, and that the men they love can take the initiative to confess themselves. If you can't understand her, you may miss a woman who loves you. Third, she doesn't take the initiative to find you, but chats with you at most. She always puts your chat window at the top, so that she can find you quickly. If you haven't missed your message, you will find that she can always reply to your message at the first time. Sometimes she will take the initiative to share interesting things she has encountered, but she will also say something that you can't understand inexplicably. Actually, she wants to ask if you love her. But because women are shy, they always speak implicitly. You may not understand her for a while, but she will tell you right away. She may just ask you casually, or she may find an excuse to say that someone else asked her. Use these excuses to resolve the embarrassment. Only a woman who really loves you can do these things. Did you find out? When a woman loves someone, she sometimes treats you with abnormal behavior, but she doesn't love you, but really loves you. When you meet such a girl, you should bravely seize your happiness and don't let it slip away.