How to be humorous without losing composure?

You like more than one thing. What others say, you can talk a little and get into other people's topics, so there are conditions for communication. Be good at reading minds, add a little joke when everyone is happy to add a little fun, and change the subject when everyone is embarrassed to get out of the way. It is not too much to adjust the atmosphere through self-deprecation once in a while. Laugh at yourself and grasp the scale, such as I am black and I am fat. And raise others to belittle themselves until they are not really belittling, but joking.