Grandma asked her granddaughter why she didn't call herself. The 5-year-old granddaughter questioned her, and the old man was shocked.

Some time ago, my hometown had something to do, and I had to take my 5-year-old daughter back to my hometown. My mother-in-law asked her daughter in front of me, "Granddaughter, grandma misses you, why don't you call her?" My daughter naively asked her, I don't have a phone. If you miss me, why don't you call me? The mother-in-law listened with a puzzled face, and then walked away awkwardly. But I admire in my heart that the baby is too witty and excellent. A five-year-old child can see such a hypocritical person as her mother-in-law.

Since knowing that I gave birth to a daughter, my mother-in-law has left me alone and rarely even made a phone call. My daughter has only seen her grandmother five times since she was five years old, including this time. Daughter, I can only know that there is a grandmother, and I have little contact with her. Every time I meet her, I don't know her at first, and I don't know until I get familiar with her for a while. How dare you say you miss your granddaughter? I was really poked by a child's words.

Many old people in life keep saying that they love and miss their children. But in practice, I don't see any affection for children. Not only do I not want to spend money on clothes and toys for my children, but I also don't want to spend time and energy taking care of them. Only verbal love, no one can act. And true love is proved by action. An elder who really loves children will not be duplicitous, but will prove it with actions:

(1) Don't abandon your child because of his sex.

Many parents, when their daughter-in-law didn't have children, have been urging them to say that they like children. Young people gave birth early and helped them. When a child is born, if the boy is full of joy, he will compete with his mother for the care and companionship of the child, want to take the place of his mother, and have a strong desire to control the child. But if the daughter-in-law gives birth to a girl, she immediately begins to change her face and doesn't like being a girl. Find various reasons not to take care of the moon and hide back to your hometown. Such an old man doesn't love children at all, but only loves Jia Xiang and his own selfishness.

Old people who really love their children will never be treated differently because of their gender. Boys and girls are proud of themselves. They all have the love and treasure of their generation.

Willing to spend time taking care of children.

Companionship is the best love. Where is the time? Where is the love? This sentence applies to any relationship. If you really love someone, you want to see him more and spend more time with him. The same is true for old people and children. If the elderly really love children, they will be willing to spend time with him, take care of him and accompany him. If a young couple has given birth to a child, they can't take care of the child because they have to go to work and need the help of their elders. The elders came with joy, taking care of the children, taking care of the family and sharing the hardships of the children. Then such elders must especially like children.

On the contrary, when some old people hear that they have to take care of their children, they find various reasons to shirk and refuse to go to see them. Such old people not only turn a blind eye to the difficulties of young people, but also have no place for children at all.

Willing to spend money on children

Money is the most vulgar, but it is also the best proof of sincerity. Some old people talk about how good they are to their grandchildren and how much they love them, but they don't spend a thread for them. Even if they have more money, they are not willing to spend it on their children. Some old people are reluctant to eat or wear, but for children, they will try their best to satisfy whatever they want to eat and use. Every time I see a child, I try to buy food for him and give him money for fear that he will be wronged. In fact, it doesn't matter how much money is, it's just the old people's heart for the younger generation, but many old people just don't give a penny.

Children like old people.

A child's heart is the clearest and the most honest. If the elderly are really good to themselves, children will like the elderly, willing to get along with them, and willing to be with them. For example, my in-laws don't like my daughter, and her daughter naturally knows her grandparents' attitude, so she never takes the initiative to mention her grandparents at ordinary times and doesn't take the initiative to go to her grandparents' house on holidays. On the contrary, I like my grandparents very much, and I will send them videos if I have nothing to do. After all, my daughter was brought up by my grandmother.

Old people want their children to be close to themselves, and at least do the following.

Children know who is good to them. If the old man does not show sincerity to the child when he is young, the child will naturally not be close when he grows up, and it will be too late to regret it. The elderly want to enjoy more family happiness in their later years, at least to do the following:

Get along well with Ma Bao.

As the child's closest person, Ma Bao's attitude towards the elderly will definitely affect the child's attitude towards the elderly. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a good relationship, and children will kiss grandparents. Daughter-in-law is angry with her mother-in-law, and children generally like grandparents. This is also love me, love my dog. Therefore, for the mother-in-law, only when she gets along well with her daughter-in-law, will the child get close to herself.

2 treat children sincerely.

Children are sensitive and simple. It is the child's instinct to be close to and depend on whoever is kind to the child. Therefore, if the elderly want their children to be close to themselves, they must first pay affection to their children.

Topic discussion: Do you old people really like children?