What are the words and deeds that indicate a person’s low emotional intelligence?

Generally speaking, people with low emotional intelligence do not know communication skills and speak too directly. They rarely know how to put themselves in someone else's shoes, so what they say often makes people unhappy. For example, a colleague of mine in the past always spoke stiffly when communicating with others. His words were like giving orders, which made others feel very uncomfortable.

He rarely speaks in a pleasant manner, and rarely understands the differences of others from the bottom of his heart. In his eyes, they communicate with everyone in the same way, which is stereotyped and templated. Poor communication will make others very resistant, causing things to not progress smoothly.

The second manifestation of low emotional intelligence is the inability to detect the emotional changes of others. Even if others say something when they are angry, he will rarely feel the meaning behind the other person's words. This causes them to often fail to integrate into the group when communicating.

My colleague's low IQ is like this. Once he made a colleague angry, but he didn't notice it. Then he continued to flirt with others, and then they treated him with a cold attitude. He didn't even notice. I realized that the other person's emotions were related to my own, and I was still concerned about whether he was sick, which caused my colleagues to almost collapse. This kind of low emotional intelligence will always lead to thankless situations in life, which often brings the relationship between oneself and others to a freezing point. This is also the main reason why they are not likeable, and they cannot truly feel the emotional changes of the other person.

The third major symptom of people with low emotional intelligence is that they are very emotional and do not know how to control their emotions. Instead, they are controlled and affected by their emotions. When they are verbally violated by others, their first reaction is to become angry or depressed. This kind of emotionality makes them not calm when encountering problems, and they are not rational enough to deal with problems. They often act impulsively, leading to immaturity.

Being very emotional can be said to be a sign of immaturity. This immaturity is reflected in the fact that they put their own emotions first, but ignore the truth and real considerations behind the matter.

The fourth manifestation of low emotional intelligence is that you like to rely on others. Relying on others means not having confidence in what you are doing. No matter what happens, you dare not deal with it alone.

The reason why people with low emotional intelligence like to rely on others often depends on their lack of understanding of themselves. They ignore their own potential, so they do not emphasize logic when speaking and communicating, and lack the habit of deep thinking. Attitudes often come across as childish and childish to those around you.