Why did she give up love and marry from Guizhou to Hebei?

This is a true story. I'm sorry, when I asked her why she was so beautiful, she married from Guizhou to Hebei, and married a man with poor family conditions, which brought back memories that she didn't want to recall.

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1992 In the autumn, a girl was born in a sparsely populated ethnic group called Buyi in Wangmo County, southwest Guizhou Province. In this patriarchal family, her parents didn't show much joy because of her birth. This is a backward and remote mountainous area in Guizhou Province. The arrival of a life only means that more people have to eat at home, and each meal needs more rations. At this time, the girl already has two brothers and two sisters.

His parents are honest farmers. In addition to washing clothes, cooking and feeding animals, they also carry a bamboo basket and pull buffaloes to do farm work on the mountainside dozens of miles away. They have never read a book, but they only know how to eat by the weather. They don't even know when their daughter was born, only know that it is the season when chrysanthemums are in full bloom.

The girl was weak from childhood and didn't learn to walk until she was eight years old. The school is far away from their home, as far away as a little girl who gets up every day when the rooster just crows. They have no clock or electricity. She walked alone in the dark mountains with a bag on her shoulder. She needs to climb two mountains and walk for two hours to get to school. When she arrived at school, it was already dawn.

Girls are smart and get good grades. She went to school for three years and got a three-year certificate. However, what she can't stand most is the loneliness and fear of walking on the mountain road at school and after school. Children her age are taken out to work by adults who have been to other provinces in the town.

Every year, those children who go out to work come back wearing beautiful clothes and shoes, which amazes the girl who is still in grade three. In her words, "they have new clothes to wear when they go out for a year, and the rich are still growing taller, so I really want to go out to work with them."

At the age of thirteen, she bid farewell to the school that might change her life's fate, and no longer had to walk that long and lonely mountain road in the early hours of the morning.

At that moment, she was more relaxed than ever.

She wanted to go out to work, but those adults told her that she was too young and it would take at least two or three years to grow taller.

So in addition to helping her parents work in the fields and herding cattle at home every day, she eats bowl after bowl in the hope of growing taller quickly.

At the age of sixteen, the adults finally found her a fake ID card, so she finally walked out of the unknown mountain of Wangmo.

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It was in 2008. She was sixteen years old. The first province she went to was Guangdong Province. She worked in an electronics factory that produced computer keyboards. At that time, she was still full of Guizhou dialect, could not speak Mandarin, and others could not understand her, so she simply stopped talking and died in the factory.

The girl is filial and unwilling to spend the money she earned. She gave all her money to her parents when she went back for the Spring Festival.

I met some colleagues at work in the first year, and then I went to Shandong with them when I came out the next year. I entered a food factory and worked as a contractor in jiaozi.

That year, she was seventeen years old, with big black eyes, white skin and a pointed face. She is very cute and soon won the love of many little boys.

Among many suitors, she rejected many people, but only one person, no matter how she refused, insisted on not marrying in this life.

Both boys and girls belong to that mountainous area in Wangmo County. Boys are handsome, not short and have a good mouth. After work at night, you can often chase girls to the girls' dormitory, and you can tell jokes to girls all the way to make them giggle before leaving.

When I go to work in the morning, I will get up early to buy a girl her favorite breakfast, wait for her downstairs in the girl's dormitory, and then go to work together.

Soon the simple girl was moved by the boy's meticulous attention, so they formally talked about love.

When you are in love, every day is so happy and carefree. Every day, the boy takes her to places she has never been, plays games she has never played and eats delicious food she has never eaten.

In the Spring Festival of 2009, the boy even took the girl home, met her parents and discussed getting married two years later.

At this time, the girl found herself pregnant, and the boy suddenly became anxious. He shouted that he didn't want children, even saying that the children were not his. The boy's mother naturally turned to her child and advised the girl to abort the child.

The girl can't stand it. After all, this is a kind of life and the crystallization of their love. She insisted on not having an abortion. She thought to herself that even if they didn't want children, she would give birth to them and raise them herself.

The girl endured the injustice and spent the Spring Festival at the boy's house. Then they went to Zhejiang, a factory that made plastic cups.

It was 20 10. The boy has two sisters, both of whom have gone to Zhejiang to live with their brother and future sister-in-law. Somehow, the boy became more and more grumpy, the class stopped, and the two sisters stopped going to work. Only that girl has to go to the workshop with a full stomach every day. Four people's lives are all on this expectant mother who is only 18 years old.

This girl is not afraid of being tired. In her mind, being tired is nothing as long as she is with the person she loves. He has a bad temper and is irritable. Maybe because I am young, I can't accept being a father so soon. He will get better one day. The girl comforted herself in her heart.

However, the patience of girls has not changed boys, but has intensified. He smokes, drinks and gambles. Sometimes he comes back from drinking and gets drunk and hits that girl. The next day, he was well again. He stretched out his hand and asked the girl for money. If he doesn't give it, he will call, and then he will call.

No matter how good-tempered a person is, there will be a bottom line. Girls can't bear to part, but they won't give up. She made up her mind to leave countless times, but she stayed after all. That's why that boy is so arrogant and runs amok.

Finally, one day, the boy's unreasonable troubles once again made the girl make up her mind to really leave.

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In April of 20 10, the girl was pregnant for six months. She knows where she can go like this. Who will take her in?

At this moment, it suddenly occurred to her that a year ago, a short and ugly boy from the food factory chased him and asked her for QQ. She contacted him on QQ with the mentality of trying, explained her current situation and told the boy that she could come to Zhejiang to pick her up as soon as possible if she wanted, and she also promised to marry him when she came back.

The boy is from Hebei, and he has been unable to find a partner because of poor family conditions. Hearing the girl say this, he offered to pick her up.

The boy was in his hometown in Hebei. After receiving the notice, he rushed to Zhejiang and immediately contacted the girl.

The next day, the girl got up before dawn, washed and cooked. As usual, after breakfast, she told the boy that she went to work. The boy said vaguely, let's go. Why are you so wordy? What he never expected was that the girl's departure turned into a farewell.

In this way, the girl followed the boy from Hebei. Every time the train goes forward, her heart breaks. Finally arrived in Handan, Hebei, and her heart broke into pieces. She clearly knows that she has completely bid farewell to the past.

The girl is thin. Although she is six months pregnant, it is not obvious. The villagers saw that the young man from Hebei brought back such a big-eyed, fresh and beautiful little girl. They all praised the young man from Hebei for his good fortune and made his parents smile from ear to ear.

A few days after returning to Hebei, the two got married according to wedding photos, and the Hebei boy officially became the girl's husband and the girl's husband's family.

My parents-in-law know that my daughter-in-law is pregnant. Every day, they cook for her daughter-in-law After the baby was born, they treated it as their own, which moved the girls who left Wan Li.

What makes her feel more gratified is that her husband has been in Hebei for six years. Although he can't compare with other people's living conditions, they have never been red-faced and quarreled, and her husband is more obedient to him.

I believe that after reading these, we are all gratified for the girl, and sincerely hope that she will live a better and happier life in the future.

What happened to that boy? How is he? Although I hate to bring it up, I always hope the story has a better ending.

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After the girl left, the boy was frightened. He doesn't know what to do. He called his parents and told them that they had made many conjectures together. In case the girl is abducted by a trafficker, in case she fainted, in case she was framed and lost her life ... His parents were scared to death at the thought of this, for fear that the girl's family would know and run to his house for something important, so the whole family escaped.

But they didn't expect that the girl had already called her parents before going to Hebei. Parents love their children dearly. They respect their children's choices and warn them not to come back, otherwise the family will spare her and the wicked will complain first.

The boy's family moved to other places and were afraid to go home. Until a few years ago, the boy's grandfather died of illness and they had to come back. It is important for the girl's parents to run to their home as soon as they hear that they are coming back.

Later, they explained the situation, and the whole family apologized to the girl's parents and said that even if they knew where the girl was, they would not pester her in the future.

The girl's parents were afraid of not counting, so they went to the local respected village head and asked their superstitious wizard to make a clean break.

The girl can finally return to her hometown that she misses day and night aboveboard.

This time, she took her husband and a little boy added at home, and their family of four went to Wangmo.

She heard from her family in dribs and drabs that after she left, the boy found another girl and gave birth to a daughter, but he didn't get a marriage certificate or hold a wedding. Finally the girl ran away, and now he is single and has to take care of his daughter.

At this point, the story finally came to an end.

For that boy and his family, I want to say that many things are being done and watched. Bad things done one day in the morning and one day in the evening will be countered in another form. The blow may be fatal or painful.

As for that girl, she is my colleague and now she is a friend. When she told me these experiences, I was completely shocked. I admire her determination to give up true love and her courage to bet her life on her husband in Hebei.

Six years have passed, and the stories of the past will always remind you of become memories, which will hurt and cry. She still thinks of him occasionally. She said that the person you love most in this life is him, but the reality is that the person you love most is not necessarily the one who can accompany you for the rest of your life.

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