What should I do if my parents quarrel?

You have a good temper, and your parents have a bad temper: If your parents have a bad temper, then when you are misunderstood and hurt, what you have to do is not to argue with them, let alone to vent your grievances and dissatisfaction through quarreling. If your parents are strong, the result of quarreling is often that you are hurt physically and mentally. At this time, you should learn to be careless when you are unwilling. When the conflict intensifies, you should stay in the bedroom and listen to music, relax and sleep. But you must be calm lest they think you will do something stupid in the bedroom. It's best to show that you want to sleep well. I don't think anyone will tell their classmates and friends about their grievances and injuries, and it is also important to find important objects to tell. It is recommended to find relatives the same age as your parents to tell them, because they have similar ideas with their parents. Parents will understand and accept things that trust you more easily through them. In fact, telling your grandparents about your grievances may not have much effect on your parents. There are many situations, so we should make some wise decisions according to our own situation.

Parents have good temper and bad temper: if you are an emotional person, you should first learn how to keep your mouth shut. When you really can't stand it, you need to vent, but of course your grievances and pains are not vented by quarreling with your parents. Arguing with parents is like a train derailment, and things will only get worse. The reason why there is a dispute is because you are too stubborn and want to absolutely criticize who is right and who is wrong, but because there is a communication problem. Therefore, contradictions will always exist. At this time, you will understand the meaning of the word "Long live understanding". Simply put, it is empathy. Why do parents do this? It's easy to get to the point. I have a bad temper. My parents sometimes take care of too much. When I get angry easily, I will ask my classmates to play basketball and exercise. Don't stay with them. Sometimes I quarrel at night, and I don't want to do anything stupid. Parents are most worried about going out at night. I try to stay at home, in my bedroom. If I really feel that I can't stay at home, I will tell them that I will sleep at my relatives and friends' house for one night. Be sure to tell them where you are going.

You and your parents have a good temper: when you find that your parents misunderstood you and you feel wronged, remember to make things clear to your parents. Because parents have a good personality and can communicate effectively, it is recommended not to bury unhappy things in your heart. Generally, children with good temper often suffer silently because of long-term forbearance, which is often more unscientific than quarreling. Therefore, good communication with parents is the most effective way.

When you criticize yourself for doing something wrong, think about who the problem is. If you really do something wrong, but you don't want to listen to their nagging criticism and education, then don't pay attention to your parents' nagging criticism, but you should reflect on it first, and they will naturally make up with you if they say what they should say. If you really can't listen to it, prepare headphones, put them on and listen to music, and ignore them. This will effectively avoid disputes and intensify contradictions. In fact, you can also take a step back to solve the criticism and nagging of your parents, that is, take the initiative to admit your mistakes. Generally speaking, children who admit their mistakes are less likely to quarrel with their parents.

Because of the different environment, if you have a lot of dissatisfaction with your parents, then you should remember that your parents have given you the most precious life. In any case, you are not qualified to abandon and blame them. If you can't escape, you must face it if you can't change it.

For the problem of not being able to communicate effectively with parents, the reason must be related to parents' growth experience, knowledge and environment. You have to have some ideas yourself, and you can't just complain. If you can't improve through the help of your relatives, you should make some compromises, understand that there is a generation gap between them and yourself, love them as much as possible, and don't do anything that hurts them. Only when you are sensible can your family be happy. Because everything your parents do is to make you grow and mature.

If parents have a bad temper and encounter such a thing as domestic violence, it is best to call the police, which can best protect themselves.