Knowing that you can't express yourself, say something and don't know the right way to do things often helps.

Hehe, this situation illustrates several facts: 1. You are very practical; 2. You are slow; 3. You are introverted; 4. You are very straightforward.

It is very likely that you sum up less and do more, but your efforts are not proportional to your returns.

I guess, your situation is still very typical-just like the joke says: Are you always scolded by people during the day, and when you think about it in bed at night, you want to know how to answer back, and then you forget when you wake up?

For this reason, you should have suffered a lot and suffered a lot-you are not a bad person, but you are always regarded as another person by the people around you. When you feel wronged, you really want to talk to someone, but after talking, you can't accept all the words that others comfort yourself-because it is too difficult for you to change according to other people's opinions and suggestions. Gradually, you stopped talking. By default, this is your own character, and you are gradually numb to the injustice you have suffered. However, life has not improved because of your resignation, has it?

In fact, there are some such people around us, and there are definitely not a few people like you.

I think what you need to do is not to be numb every time this happens. You try to write down your thoughts when you talk back. Even if you don't get a chance to talk about it later, it's your experience. Don't read a few words, so you will remember the whole event, and you will grow up and stop falling into the same pit.

Wish you success!