My mother's sick mother-in-law won't let me pay, so I have to pay all the utilities at home. How should I face this evil mother-in-law?

Youth is precious and fleeting. If we can meet a romantic and happy love in our purest and most beautiful years, then our life will bloom with brand-new brilliance.

So we began to look for love with our hearts, hoping to find a sustenance for our hearts as soon as possible. However, there are not many people whose emotional path is smooth, and many people have experienced breakup and parting.

In the early days of love, everyone knows how to care about their lover and repay each other's efforts. However, after gaining happiness and recognition, some people gradually lose their gratitude.

It is a mistake for many people to regard the love they get as the capital they ask for. When a person's heart is occupied by selfishness and greed, happiness may gradually fade away.

0 1. In everyone's eyes, Cui Jia is a very diligent and enterprising girl. But because of her unsatisfactory grades, she chose to start her own business. After many efforts, she finally persuaded her parents and opened a dessert shop near her hometown.

With novel models and products, and relying on the good reputation accumulated slowly, Cui Jia quickly earned the first bucket of gold. A few years later, she expanded the scale and paid the down payment of the house with her savings. At the age of 25, she began to think about getting married.

A young man named Xiaogang is a frequent visitor in the store, and they have a good impression after many contacts. Cui Jia knew that he had a high degree, so he always admired him. In the process of communication, Cui Jia has always been generous, but she never reveals her income.

Every date, Cui Jia will prepare some cakes and desserts, and then let Xiaogang take them home. However, after a year of contact, she was rejected by the other mother: "A working girl with low education is not worthy of my son!"

02. This was a great blow to Cui Jia, but after learning that her income was high and she had bought a house, the attitude of Xiaogang's family suddenly changed greatly. After repeated entreaties, she finally accepted this love.

Although the bride price is only 8,000 yuan and the wedding is simple, Cui Jia just wants to live a good life. After getting married, my mother-in-law moved in on the grounds of helping. Cui Jia gave her two thousand alimony every month, but this kindness was not rewarded.

Because the shop is busy, her mother-in-law always accuses Cui Jia of neglecting her family and being immoral. Facing the differences in life, Xiaogang is always "unconditional" to his mother. At this time, Cui Cai knew that Xiaogang turned out to be a "mother-in-law" who had no opinion.

At the end of each month, my mother-in-law will make a list, which contains every expense of this month. Although Cui Jia's income is not low, he is under great pressure because he has to bear the mortgage and various expenses, and he has almost no savings.

What makes Cui Jia most angry is that in the second year after marriage, her mother was in urgent need of a sum of money because of minor surgery. After borrowing money from her mother-in-law, she was refused. Xiaogang even criticized her, saying that she deliberately pretended to be poor and ignorant.

In order not to worry her parents, Cui Jia silently endured everything at home. In the third year after marriage, her shop successfully transformed. At the end of the year, Xiao Gang offered to help him buy a car, because he felt that the car Cui Jia married was not up to grade.

My mother-in-law said: "My son is so excellent and has paid so much for his family. He should change to a high-end car." Cui Jia was very angry, because all along, her efforts have not been rewarded.

Cui Jiaming did say that he wanted to open a branch office and turned down the proposal to buy a car. In the face of family conflicts, she chose to go back to her parents' home. Xiaogang is very unhappy. He kept sending messages complaining that Cui Jia was too stingy. In a rage, Cui Jia filed for divorce.

Just after the divorce procedure, my mother-in-law sent a message: "Daughter-in-law, come back and pay the water and electricity bill. I don't blame you for staying at my parents' house and making people laugh. Cui Jia replied: "Sorry, I divorced Xiaogang." . Please move out as soon as possible. "

Long-term love should be based on "mutual". Cui Jia has always played the role of giver, but her kindness will only lead to stronger demand. Naturally, she is very tired. In marriage, Xiaogang always lacks gratitude and due responsibility, and takes the lover's contribution for granted, which is equivalent to overdrawing the trust of the other party.

A correct and reasonable view of love is the premise of finding true love. If you pay too much attention to each other's conditions when looking for a partner, it is likely to turn love into a transaction. I hope everyone who is looking for love with heart can show sincerity, remain kind and pay attention to the inside.

Two people who can get married together must have a great fate. It is an honor to find a lover who is willing to pay. Smart people will restrain selfishness and willfulness in marriage, and then learn to put themselves in their own shoes and often understand their lover's feelings.

Don't have too much sense of superiority in marriage, there are checks and balances between husband and wife. When you respond to your lover's enthusiasm and dedication with indifference and greed for a long time, the other person must feel chilling in repeated losses. Be kind, be kind.

Love is a kind of happiness that we can accompany all the time, and we can bear it appropriately, but some people only care about enjoying their lover's efforts, and sometimes they don't even feel the pressure and troubles of each other.

Everyone should have self-knowledge, learn to weigh themselves in love, learn to understand the other half, and constantly optimize and improve themselves in life, so that this happiness will always accompany them.