I'm in my fifth year, and I'll never attend a reunion again.

Wen/Xia Mo

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When people reach middle age, it becomes more and more difficult to make friends. At this time, students in their school days, like the "moon", bring themselves a glimmer of light and some comfort in their loneliness like the night.

The older a person is, the more he is willing to look back on the past. At that time, his feelings were sincere, everyone's thoughts were pure, and when he spoke, he could find the feeling of high spirits in those days, as if he had really gone back to the past.

in the book of songs, it says, "I used to be gone, and the willows are reluctant; Today I think about it, it's raining. "

out of all kinds of thoughts, or nostalgia, or missing someone, or lingering thoughts, I want to take this opportunity again to give myself more beautiful taste of friendship.

I'm in my fifth year, and my former classmates have started to contact again.

The old days that can't be returned, the feeling that can't be found, even if the scene hasn't changed, even those people.

Time has taken away too many things and changed too many people. Don't be naive to think that everything will stay yesterday.

when this party changes quality, you will find that the more people there are, the more lonely they are.

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Contacting old classmates was originally to eliminate loneliness.

Augustine said, "Friendship between people unites the hearts of most people, which is tender and sweet because of this valuable connection."

But students who haven't contacted for a long time, when they get together again, what they want to express most is how "prosperous" their lives are. The hearts are not only not United, but are wrapped up in layers, giving you a whitewashed "peace".

One portrait after another is "dressed up", and one after another shows their status and rights, worth and success like models.

Chen Yi wrote such a poem: "Don't brag about yourself if you are complacent.". Looking at how many things in ancient and modern times, from humility to luxury. "

The homecoming, which should be full of affection, has turned into a "fight show". Such an occasion is out of place for you, and it has also stimulated and frightened your calm heart.

This kind of stale homecoming makes many sentimental people run away. On this occasion, whoever is rich and powerful has the right to speak, and whoever is incompetent will be despised by everyone.

A good friend who used to tell everything, but now the class reunion is divided into three grades. The topic of chatting has also become a crazy comparison between you, me and him, and the one who shouts cheers loudly is the most proud person at this reunion.

I'm in my fifth year, and my children are older, so the burden on my shoulders is lighter. I originally contacted my old classmates, hoping to be short at home and eliminate some loneliness. But often after getting together, I find myself out of place with them, and I feel more lonely.

the classmates' affection in those years is long gone.

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I'm in my fifth year, and I'll never attend a class reunion again.

when the good hope is shattered, we will not insist on it again. After all, the youth that can't come back can't come back.

If you attend a class reunion, you will be exhausted physically and mentally. You should smile so hard that the other party will think that you are listening to him.

Keep your heart steady and accept everyone's interrogation of your soul: "What's your annual income? What kind of house do you live in and what kind of car do you drive? What kind of work do you do and how big an official you are? "

a class reunion, see through where there is any classmate feeling.

I wanted to brag a few words, but I really couldn't open my mouth. The other party would even poke people's hearts with a sentence: "It doesn't matter if you don't get along well, I'll pay for it. If you have any difficulties, you are all old classmates, and you must take care of those who should be taken care of ..."

You have to pay for your smiling face, which seems to take advantage of him. But at the time of checkout, it was still AA system, and the money spent was not less.

At the age of Grade Five, I care more about comfort, and I want to pay attention to my health and not spend money indiscriminately. However, the reunion of classmates has not relaxed my mood and classmates' feelings.

I feel tired after attending a class reunion, which hurts my health and money. Classmates can't vent their emotions after a fight, so they can only flatter them and wronged themselves.

Although the AA system of class reunion is fair, the class reunion is a worthless meeting, which is a waste of money. Although it's not much, it's hard earned, and it's enough to pay for a month's living expenses.

The choice of venue, all the arrangements are high-end and high-grade. After this gathering, I didn't eat anything, but also ate my stomach and emptied my wallet. No matter how lonely I am, I don't want to attend a class reunion that has changed.

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I'm in my fifth year, and I'll never attend a class reunion again.

The famous host, Lao Liang, once told a story: At the party, a classmate said, I will cover all the expenses, and you can come alone. That classmate is a real estate developer and he is a university professor.

Seriously, this classmate not only invited him to eat and sing, but also reimbursed him for his plane ticket back to his hometown. I have been catching up with this professor all the time.

When we were leaving, we said, "My girl is going to take the college entrance examination this year, that is, she is going to your school. You should ask her about her children's schooling, self-enrollment and so on ..."

At this time, it suddenly dawned on me that the reunion was fake, and it was only true to ask her to do things. However, there is no communication at ordinary times, and such a class reunion has become the best "medium" between them.

There's nothing so sentimental to talk about. As the movie says, "The world of adults only talks about pros and cons." Even if it is to contact feelings, it is not a simple motive.

We sat together and chatted. We had inquired about your family background clearly and clearly before, and everything we did was to get some benefits from you.

When the party becomes a place full of scheming, those who really come with feelings will always feel cold and will never set foot on such occasions again. Unknowingly, they will become pawns in others' eyes, and even the little friendship they have kept in their hearts will be exhausted.

It's almost five. When classmates get together, they can't find any classmates' feelings any more. Only when they are insincere, they will never attend the classmates' reunion again. The sincerity of the past has become the past.

5

Old classmates who haven't seen each other for a long time, if they don't know how the other person is doing now and whether they still have true feelings for themselves, don't meet each other easily. Simply getting along is just a phone call and a greeting, and they can feel each other's mind.

The book says, "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water." If you deliberately please, or you must find you, there will always be other meanings. Not only can you not agree in a hurry, but you must also find out the real intention of the other party.

Many middle-aged people are no longer rampaging teenagers, and there are many topics that are meaningless to talk about. A joke you heard in those days may stay in your memory deeply, but now it's already dull.

when people are old, they also need high-quality friends.

The uncertainty is too high whether there will be any classmates in the reunion. It's better to make a deep friend, although it's few, but we both know the root of the matter and have a good relationship with each other during the period.

just like the boya period, it is enough to meet a bosom friend in this life.

if it doesn't belong to you, let it stay in the past. Cherish what belongs to you. If there is no real friendship at the gathering of old classmates, don't force yourself to participate.

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Today's topic:

Will you go to the reunion of old classmates?