Let go+heart, slow down the company is just hold your horses.

Looking through the book Positive Education, I talked about the problem of nature education. It has been adopted for a month to let children study, live and arrange their time freely according to their own ideas, but they made a mistake, that is, behind cold violence and ridicule, it is not good for children's growth. Thinking about letting children accept the consequences of their wrong behavior and grow naturally. After a month of fruitlessness, I found that I misunderstood the true meaning of this book.

? Everything should be done differently from person to person. For my daughter's positive education, my wrong method caused her to be less confident. I know what she needs is encouragement and correct guidance. What we should do is to actively accompany and guide correctly, instead of mocking, watching jokes and enforcing them.

? After reflection, I got rid of the routine I have to do every day. What I need to do next is to be patient, hold my horses, guide little by little, teach little by little, study with her, accept her growing up slowly, wait for her to blossom and bear fruit quietly, and give her a happy childhood.