How do you deal with people who like to cause embarrassment?

First, this kind of person can be said to be very disgusting. People who create embarrassment bring trouble to others, and it is understandable that they do so unintentionally. If they deliberately make others feel uncomfortable, it can be said that such people have a very dark psychology. If this kind of person is around me, I will stay away from him like a dirty thing. He is creating embarrassing rumors, and others despise and dislike him in their hearts, but in fact he has not earned anything. When making friends, you must stay away from these people. The purpose of getting along with friends is to make people's lives happy, not to make them miserable.

There is a minister in my association who likes to give difficult questions to new recruits during interviews. For example, he will say that he will give you one minute so that you can communicate with the people around you to get the most information. However, when he made this request, the people around you were told by him to act aloof. I was very uncomfortable that night, and even regretted going to the interview. There were about seven or eight people at a table, and they asked each other if there was a crack in the floor, they would rather get into it. I learned privately that my minister was quite dissatisfied with him, but he didn't show it on his face.

Second, this kind of person’s emotional intelligence is touching. As far as I can see, if you embarrass others, you won't get any benefits. This kind of behavior is equivalent to harming others without benefiting oneself, which is worse than benefiting oneself at the expense of others. In the process of creating embarrassment, it will not bring you any benefits. On the contrary, it will cause others to be dissatisfied and disgusted, and they will avoid them. Modern society not only needs IQ, but EQ is also very important, even more important than IQ.

Third, there is something wrong with this kind of person. Not only is he rude, he doesn’t respect others, he is unfriendly and generous. A person with high morals thinks about others and how can he not affect others, but someone who creates embarrassment and takes pleasure in the unhappiness of others is very despised.