The second child is also the mother of her daughter. Have you ever been criticized?

Dabao is five years old and is a girl. It was nothing at that time, just her first child. Later, the family advised to have one more child, and said that regardless of men and women, find Dabao a companion! Therefore, when Dabao went to kindergarten, he prepared for the second child (in line with the policy). The reaction after pregnancy is particularly strong. Originally, I wanted to go to Hong Kong for a check-up to see the gender, but my husband disagreed, saying that he was too weak to toss. At the age of five months, it was a baby girl, which was a little hard for my husband and me to accept, but the fact is that both men and women are our treasures. In May this year, Bauer was born, and we tried to keep a low profile. However, our relatives and friends around us, even our neighbors, look at us with some kind of colored glasses. My husband didn't expect to bear this. These pressures hurt us invisibly. The old people at home will more or less mention some other people's views on our family, which makes us even more annoying! We just want to raise our two babies quietly. Is it that hard? I feel a little tired.

I think having a baby is my own business, and it has nothing to do with others, as long as my husband and I like it. In fact, we should hold an indifferent attitude! I wish I had a pig, I'm happy! Besides, it's a healthy baby! In fact, I think one son and one daughter are the best! But this kind of thing does not mean that giving birth to a boy is a boy, and giving birth to a girl is a girl! So both men and women are their own treasures! I can understand the idea that men prefer boys to girls! But as a woman who has been pregnant for so many months and then suffered all kinds of hardships, I am very happy to have a baby, a boy and a girl! I don't care what others say, as long as I can see that the child is promising.