Why do women come home afraid of kissing after cheating in marriage?

In today's society, cheating has become a common phenomenon. We can see such things on the internet every three to five times. This is not the relationship of the times, mainly because information spreads faster and wider than before, and derailment is still a human problem in the final analysis.

After cheating, many people always like to find reasons for their actions, saying that their marriage is unhappy and confused for a while, but cheating is cheating on marriage and feelings. If the reason can rule out the fault of cheating, can everyone cheat? The answer is obviously not.

But some people don't care so much. In order to satisfy your own selfish desires, you can ignore your marriage and family.

Let's listen to the voices of three cheating women and see if they are afraid to make out with their husbands after cheating.

1 "What's to be afraid of? If it is discovered, it is a big deal to let others remarry. "

Ms. Wang, 3 1 year old.

My husband and I have known each other for ten years, fell in love for nine years and got married for seven years. They used to be vows of eternal love, but time was too cruel and everything changed quietly. I've been told that getting married after seven years itches. I used to scoff at this, but when I was married for seven years, I found this sentence to be true.

My husband and I are married like most people. At first, we couldn't live without each other for a moment, so we wanted to stick together. But after the honeymoon, we were tired of the feeling of entanglement. Then, we always find shortcomings in each other, and these shortcomings obviously always exist. We never felt anything before, but this time, we just didn't like it. Then we complained and blamed each other, and then it became a quarrel. Later,

On the one hand, I am tired of this life, on the other hand, I am extremely eager for passion and romance.

After cheating, there is no burden in my heart. I don't think there's anything wrong with my cheating. This is my marriage. Why should I insist? Don't say that my husband and I are close. I'm not afraid of being discovered by my husband. If I'm found out, I'll get a divorce and then find someone else to marry.

2 "I am particularly scared, but I dare not refuse my husband, for fear that he will find something unusual."

Ms. Jiang, 38.

Actually, my husband and I have a good relationship. He has a successful career, takes care of his family and, most importantly, treats me well.

Supposedly, with such a husband, I should snicker behind my back, but in fact, my husband is busy with work and often travels or socializes, resulting in little time for two people to get along.

At my age, I am eager for my husband to accompany me, especially when he is on a business trip and I live alone. My heart is really lonely.

So when a man was nice to me, I couldn't hold back for a while and cheated.

I especially regret cheating, because I love my husband, and I'm afraid he will divorce me if he knows I cheated. If he divorces me, I don't know how to live.

Therefore, every time my husband makes out with me, I am particularly afraid that he will find something, but I dare not refuse, or I will be finished.

Not at all, because my husband hasn't touched me for a long time.

Ms. Zhang is 36 years old.

My husband hasn't touched me since my youngest daughter was born. At first, I didn't care. After a long time, I felt something was wrong. I asked him why, but he said he was too tired and not in the mood.

But after a long time, he didn't touch me. I asked him again, but he still said that he was too tired to work and was not in the mood. This makes me suspicious. I suspected that he didn't touch me, not because he was too tired at work, but because he had a woman outside, so I began to observe his whereabouts, but after observing for a long time, I didn't find anything unusual about him.

If that's not the reason, why doesn't he want to touch me? After thinking about it, I came to the conclusion that he didn't want to touch me because he disliked that I was not as beautiful as before. This made me feel very painful and aroused my revenge on him.

Isn't he unwilling to touch me? Then I'll find someone who will touch me. I know it's wrong to cheat, and I know my idea is wrong, but I just can't control myself for some reason.

After cheating, I didn't regret it, because in my opinion, the reason why I cheated was his fault, not mine, and I was not afraid to make out with my husband at all, because he didn't want to touch me at all.

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I have to say, some people's ideas are really wonderful. Obviously, they are wrong, confident and even arrogant. We must not tolerate such people.

As the saying goes, once you are unfaithful, you don't need it for life.