Why do some people say, "My Lord, don't ask about the salary of your peers casually"?

Don't ask others about their salary casually. This is a very private thing, but also an embarrassing thing, which not only embarrasses the other party, but also may embarrass yourself. If the other party answers according to the real salary, you may think that the other party's high salary is deliberately showing off in front of you. If the other person's salary is low, you may laugh at jokes and the other person will lose face.

Salary is a very private matter, so it's best not to ask around casually. Some people just ask casually and are particularly curious about other people's affairs. How many people are there in your family? What did you eat today? Where do children go to school? What does your husband do? How much do you drive every month? What do these things have to do with you? Salary is very private. Don't ask about it casually. This will hurt your feelings. If you ask this person about his high salary, sometimes you don't have to ask. We also know that if his salary is high, he will not hide it and his living conditions will be good. If he is frugal, his salary will not be too high, so he is a working class, so it is clear at a glance. Is it necessary to ask? It's embarrassing. It's embarrassing. How did the other person answer you? This is a difficult problem for the other party. Because people in the society now feel that they can't tell the truth, there will be misunderstandings if they tell the truth, and there may be no friends to do it.

Adults leave three points on their lips. What do you want to do when you ask their salary? Knowing that people are not as good as you, you ridicule others. This kind of thinking and mentality is not good. The beginning of life is good, so don't do it with E Lai. Don't laugh at others if you have it. This is also a kind of goodwill. You can live in your own house with the door closed. If people have money but no money, you need money. Mind your own business. There are people outside the mountain, and there are people who make more money than you. How much did you earn? How much you spend, how much you say, has nothing to do with others. It is good for you to have your kindness. If you shouldn't pry, keep your mouth shut, because it's none of your business. Just keep your kindness and bottom line. A truly measured person is a person with very high emotional intelligence.

In the world of adults, only telling the truth can make people feel that you are kind and you can make friends. It doesn't matter if others earn more or less. Even if they earn ten thousand dollars, they won't give you a penny. Why do you care so much?