My stepmother said that my granddaughter would be my daughter-in-law, and my daughter would give it to her husband's family after the divorce. She is seven years younger than me. I wonder if she is jo

My stepmother said that my granddaughter would be my daughter-in-law, and my daughter would give it to her husband's family after the divorce. She is seven years younger than me. I wonder if she is joking. This may be a joke of stepmother, because in the traditional culture of China, children who are seven years younger than themselves are generally not regarded as daughters-in-law. However, it is also possible that she is not joking, but trying to help the children relocate. Since the stepmother made such a request, we should think calmly. First of all, we should consider the child's own feelings about this matter and see if he/she is willing to come to our home as a member of our family. In addition, we should also take into account the existing laws and regulations and the positions, attitudes and handling methods of relevant government departments on this matter.