What to do if your child has low self-esteem and is introverted? How to deal with a child who has low self-esteem and is introverted?

1. Start with the child’s appearance. Change your clothes. Clothes should be neat and tidy, sit upright and walk with your head held high. It’s time to cultivate your child’s idol baggage and not become a dirty child. Encourage children to speak loudly and clearly. Try to dress your children up as confident as possible. This is a shortcut to changing their mentality and overcoming their low self-esteem.

2. Don’t ask your children from the perspective of parents. It’s more important to think from their perspective and give your children more free space. Learn more about your child's abilities and make demands on your child based on his existing abilities rather than setting demands on your child yourself. You can appropriately lower your child's requirements to ensure that your requirements are consistent with your child's actual abilities.

3. Use positive hints to tell your children “you can do it”. Encourage your children more, for example, "You have completed the small task of eating independently. Dad believes that you can complete the small task of reading before going to bed. Come on!" This kind of positive self-suggestion method can allow children to understand the importance of doing something. As the good feeling continues and positive signals continue to accumulate, the child will gradually gain confidence and ability to complete other things and get rid of the inferiority complex.

4. Once a child experiences the joy of success, he will be more willing to express himself, become more open, believe that he can do better, and be willing to help others. In this way, children who open themselves up can get rid of failure anxiety, don't care about other people's evaluations, and become more confident and outgoing.

5. Encourage children to deal with criticism correctly. Although we parents are very nice and generous in encouraging and praising our children at home, when we go out, our children will still face the judgment of others. Not all comments are good. What if a child receives bad comments or even ridicule from others? Will it aggravate the child's sense of inferiority?