What if the punchline is too high?

Yes, as the saying goes, if the river is clear, there will be no fish, and if the joke is too high, there will be no entertainment. In the crowd, if a person laughs too high and doesn't laugh when everyone laughs, it will make other people who laugh feel faint fear: "Hey, is this actually a very low-level joke?" Or is this a fishing joke? I got caught? "

Even after knowing that you have slow laughter syndrome, they still can't control this deep fear. At the same time, you will feel out of touch because you can't keep up with the rhythm of the group, so their fears are out of touch with you, leading to the existence of unsociable.

For the present situation, you have three solutions:

1, it takes two hands to applaud, and the jokes of these people make you laugh. It can be said that your jokes are too high, or that their jokes are not high enough. Please try to expand your circle and get in touch with those who are more vocal. Please believe that there are no jokes that can't be reached, only grooves that are not high enough. And many times, as long as there is a person with strong spit in the group, he can continue to lead the group to break through Tianyuan and continuously improve the level of the paragraph.

2. If the mountain can't be moved, go by yourself, but do the changes you want to see in the world. If the group's spit level can't be improved, then try to reduce your own jokes. Of course, laughter is natural, and it is very difficult to reduce it. So before you lose weight, you can make an emergency preparation. For example, you can always keep some jokes that will make you laugh if you recall them. Whenever someone tells a joke that is not funny, you can quickly take out your inventory and make yourself laugh. For me, "The top ten most famous last words in the world rank first, and I think I can save them … Ah …" always makes me laugh inexplicably.

3, the ultimate solution. There is only one situation where everyone laughs and one person doesn't, but instead of feeling alienated, it will enhance others' admiration for you. It was you who told the joke.

At several parties in Zhihu, Chengdu, people always sighed from the heart and asked me why I told cold jokes, hot jokes and dirty jokes so frequently. The audience all laughed, but they looked serious and never laughed. I answered for the first time that this is my basic quality of being strict at all times as a banker. Nobody believed it. Later, I clarified that this has nothing to do with my career, but my personal characteristics. Someone believed it.

Do you think I will tell them that my facial nerve was damaged after the car accident when I was 7 years old, and I have lost the ability to pull muscles and smile forever? No, I never will. I will only be as patient as Fu Hongxue. Fu Hongxue practices sword drawing 1000 times in a dark room every day, and no one can beat him again. Think in front of the Prince's Weibo wall every day 1000 seconds. Finally, he broke through himself, finally turned facial paralysis into an advantage and became a cold-faced comedian praised by everyone in the Jianghu.

This is a retrogression in life.