Why do you like uncle? I can't help liking it. Is Lori always like this?

Some people say that uncle has three treasures, which are mature and stable and easy to overthrow; Some people say that Lori has three elements, safety, satisfaction and dependence. In fact, we don't know that all roads lead to the same goal:

The first is the way of cultural inertia: writing that Loli falls in love with her uncle, which has existed since ancient times; "A pear tree over a begonia" is still familiar. As the old saying goes, three wives and four concubines must be old wives and few wives; If we say "three from four" today, there will be intergenerational integration. China's traditional culture will not be easily moved by the rut, which will take time to kill. Human growth comes from imitation, either one or the other. Loli's love, infatuation and love for uncle are inevitably influenced by the cultural subconscious. The second is the way of superstructure: love is full of water, that is a good story; If you want to live a good life, you have to be economically free early. Uncle is not given a role first, but acquired, because it must have not only the independent variable of age, but also the dependent variable of wealth. Love is found seriously, not casually. Since "finding" will make you hold your head high, you won't hunch over, so it's not a beautiful misunderstanding for Lori to see her spire, single and uncle 30+40+. Third, the way of psychological needs: psychological research shows that people will have Oedipus complex more or less, because it is an emotional bond, and Loli is no exception. Uncle has matured through time and can tolerate Lori's chatter and coquetry; Uncle is calm and sophisticated, and can guide Lori's ignorance and reason. So it's good to enjoy the cool under the big tree. Lori looks for her uncle in the shade, because she can be a father and can guarantee not to be scolded. The last one is the way of rolling sheets in love: love is not spoken, but made, which everyone knows. Uncle turned over more sheets than Lori saw, earlier than the impatient time of eating bananas without peeling them. Instead, it's the kind of playing hard to get and putting it away at will. This feeling of ancestors leading the way is exactly what Lori yearns for. But it is always necessary to pay back when you come out to mix, and it is difficult to solve the physiological scissors difference. So it's best to find a balance and grow old together.