Beipiao's daughter sneaked home to see her parents' reaction, which was embarrassing. As a parent, will you support her children drifting north?

No, say my age first. I'm a child now, just with those so-called North drift? The children are the same age, but I am different from them. Personally, I don't support drifting north. Even if there are friends around me who say where they are going, I will discourage them. If I can't dissuade her, I'll let her go to those places.

The disadvantage of drifting north is not bad, but too much pressure. From a girl's point of view, drifting north is really unnecessary. I can understand if a boy wants to drift north. After all, boys will have the heart to make achievements, and no one will want to live in a small county for a lifetime. However, although there are many opportunities in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, the pressure of life is also much greater. I have been to Shanghai. At that time, my brother and sister-in-law all went out to travel.

They have a good relationship. Their love began in high school and lasted until they were 30 years old. They work in Shanghai. Although they earned a lot, they also spent a lot of money. According to my parents, my brother and sister-in-law once wanted to come back because there was really no way to live in Shanghai. My brother's family is not very good, and the housing prices in Shanghai are ridiculously high. My brother is not a graduate of a famous university, or even a junior college student. Fortunately, my brother survived in Shanghai through his own efforts and bought a small house for two. I have been to that house. In fact, the money to buy that house in Shanghai is enough to live a good life in a small county.

My brother's example can be said to be a minority. Most people either have a particularly bad life in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, or have returned to their original cities. So what's the significance of going to that city? Let's talk about why children are not allowed to drift north, because once children travel to the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, they may not see them again. Take this epidemic as an example. We used to see my brother almost every year when he was in college in our province, but now he can't come back for a year. Some people say that you can come back as long as you earn enough money, but once you live, you will find that sometimes you have time to work and live. Forced? Can't come back.

In fact, what parents care most about is not whether their children can get ahead, but whether they want to be around. Therefore, when I become a parent, I will try not to allow my child to drift north, but if she wants to go out to make a living, I will not stop her. Generally speaking, everything is still from the child's point of view, mainly to persuade. If the child is bent on drifting north, there is nothing he can do.