How to chat on blind date?

How to chat on blind date? Nowadays, more and more single young people solve their marriage problems through blind date, but what should they do to make a good impression on each other when they meet for the first time? Now I'll give you a brief idea of how to chat better when dating.

How to chat on blind date 1 First, how to chat after blind date.

1. Starting from the topic of hometown

In fact, a lot has been said about the problem of hometown. Most people are wandering and struggling alone, and it is especially kind to talk about their hometown, which can also bring them closer and get familiar with each other's living environment. Moreover, if you know some customs and habits or some dietary problems in advance, there will be no particularly embarrassing problems in the future.

2. Recently released movies and even hit TV series.

Girls all like watching movies or TV series, so they all have these things and will know them very well. If you know these things to a certain extent, then they will feel that they can talk to you especially, but you can't show special interest in these TV series. Boys watch movies at a higher level, but talk about TV plays at a lower level. Girls still like domineering boys.

If a boy often stays at home and watches some TV dramas that girls like to watch, I don't think girls are particularly interested. You can talk to him about some recently released movies. If TV plays are mentioned, it will be better for girls to talk about themselves and listen more.

3. Hobbies

Hobbies are actually a way to get to know each other, but you must remember what you like as a boy. You must have your own hobby, and this hobby must be higher. For example, sports and fitness are all attractive to girls, or playing basketball.

In this way, the girl's impression of you will be upgraded. Besides, it's okay now. In fact, it can be said that many boys and girls like to keep dogs. In fact, they are also very interested in pets. A boy and a girl who like keeping pets will feel particularly warm and secure. If she happens to like pets very much, isn't it more likely that you will be together?

When chatting, we must pay attention to creating a particularly relaxed and pleasant atmosphere. Don't let the other person have pressure or a strong purpose. When you ask a girl a question, don't ask anything deliberately, but talk casually, which will make her feel relaxed and happy.

If you can still have a moderate sense of humor, it is actually a great bonus, which is also her first impression of you. After all, your face is given by your parents and cannot be changed. You can change your clothes, it's just appearance. In fact, an interesting soul is far more important than these.

Second, the blind date chat topic daquan

Her outlook on life.

Many girls are actually very thoughtful, but unfortunately, usually boys only see her appearance. Ask her about her plans for the future, what does she think is the most important thing in life, and even think about the meaning of life? This kind of thing you seldom tell others, sometimes because you ask it in the right tone at the right time, let her say it in Kan Kan, and she will be impressed by you. Of course, don't take this topic too seriously. Relax. If you see that the other person can't answer with a frown, you should help her smooth things over and change the subject.

Talk about personal hobbies

Everyone has appropriate hobbies, and chatting is not afraid of nothing to say. And talking about these can help us understand each other's interests, which is an important topic in the future and easy to cause laughter. Just pay attention to the scale, don't laugh wildly, and let the other person think that you are uncultured.

More importantly, if you two share the same interests, we can open another deeper topic for you. Of course, when talking about hobbies, don't always focus on her hobbies in the conversation. This will show that you have a strong sense of demand for her. You should lead this conversation. Knowing her doesn't really help you attract her.

Your little secret

Do you have any little secrets that you don't usually tell others? Tell your blind date, she will think that you are willing to trust her and feel flattered, and then she will probably exchange secrets with you. This is a great way to interact. A little secret can start with association. For example, if you say, "Oh, my God ~ You know, when I saw this menu, I suddenly thought of my childhood exam paper ... I don't know why I suddenly thought of it. Do you want to hear an old secret of mine? "

childhood

Many childhood stories are interesting, full of embarrassing or warm moments. You can talk about your first love, your crush on a primary school teacher, or an anecdote that happened to you. Whose childhood didn't have an anecdote? Speaking out will not affect your glorious image, but also make people think you are kind and lovely. It is an excellent topic to talk about how you skipped classes during school, stole the coup of sleeping, and how you can eat without anyone knowing.

You can also talk about your childhood ideals. This is a very interesting topic, which can not only relax and enjoy, but also enhance feelings. However, don't cling to the conversation. Let her talk. The happier she speaks, the better your chances.

Third, what is better to talk about on a date?

Number one: their hometown.

When dating, you said that hometown is a good choice, because hometown can give people a sense of intimacy. You can talk about your hometown, such as any interesting places and things in your hometown. The most important thing is that you chat with emotion in the process of chatting, which is the key point.

As long as you have feelings when chatting, everything will go well and all the difficulties will be solved. Your blind date can also be particularly smooth, and you will feel that each other is quite suitable for each other. So, seize the medium of hometown.

The second point: new movies.

Nowadays, young people all like watching movies. When a movie is shown, many people will go to the cinema to watch it. At this time, you can take the opportunity to ask him if he has seen the film. If she says no, then you can formally ask her out to the movies. This will also make girls think that you are a very considerate man.

If she says she has seen it, then you can come. This movie. It is possible that you have the same idol, in this movie. So * * * with the topic, not there.

The third point: hobbies.

The purpose of blind date is to get to know each other better and faster and see if they are the right person for you. At this time, you can talk about your hobbies. This leads to what you like, what you don't like and whether you are suitable for living together.

You may have something you like, and then. Seeing the similarities between the two of you in this hobby will also make your feelings further.

How to chat on blind date II. First, we should understand each other's hobbies as a breakthrough. Some people will feel that there is nothing to talk about, so they should understand each other's hobbies and interests and only say what they are good at and interested in. If the other person is not interested and you are still talking, then the other person will definitely bother you and will not leave any good influence. So before a blind date, you should spend some time, do some homework, get to know each other's preferences and look at your circle of friends. If the other person likes gossip, talk to him. If you like food, talk about food, or movies, paintings, work, fitness and so on. As long as we are at each other's points of interest, we are not afraid of nothing to say and will not be embarrassed.

Second, when chatting, we should start with each other's mood, feelings and emotions. For example, if the other party has issued a year-end bonus, they will only ask how much they have paid, and then there is nothing to talk about. But if you want to start from the aspects of mood and feelings, you will say a lot. For example, your boss is nice and really cares about people. Then the other person may say how her boss usually cares about people. What are the specific examples? Many examples and experiences can be used to say, so you can talk about it.

Third, try to talk about it on a concrete and subtle level, and don't talk about abstract topics. For example, after watching a movie or a book, do you think it is good? The other person answered well, and then there was nothing to say. To be more specific, what do you think of a role? Is it funny? Everyone has his own opinion. Then we'll talk about something else. There are many topics.

Fourth, talk more about open topics and less about closed topics. Is to ask a non-unique answer, then there are different views on the same question. Everyone has different experiences and views, and there is room for continuous development. It is correct to stand on your own position. If you ask a math question, there is only one answer. It's embarrassing not to answer. There is nothing to say when you answer it.