What is the psychology of a boy deleting a girl’s WeChat account when he is angry?

1. What does it mean when a boy deletes a girl’s contact information?

Generally, men are not so heartless towards women. On the contrary, women often delete each other’s contact information out of anger. However, when a man takes the initiative to delete you from his contact information, it all shows his attitude towards you. Whether they are ordinary friends or lovers, it is actually a very heartless behavior for a man to delete a woman's contact information. It means that this woman has really done something that he can't stand, or that he and her have old and new grudges that they will never see each other again. Hate, he would do this. ?

1. I am tired of the other person and don’t want to be disturbed by the other person anymore.

In the relationship between men and women, boys are always very decisive when they are ruthless. Once they are tired of the other person, they want to get out of the relationship quickly and not give the other person a chance to pester them. Deleting a girl's contact information can quickly block contact with the girl, no longer be disturbed by the other party, and gain a sense of tranquility.

2. I have been hurt in my relationship with the other person and cannot let go of the other person, but I feel hopeless.

If he doesn’t delete the girl’s contact information, he can’t help but want to send her a message and look through her friend circle when he has time. This is a kind of cruel torture for him. Only by deleting the other party's contact information can you force yourself to let go completely and stop yourself from looking so humble.

3. After the quarrel, he deleted the other party out of anger.

Some boys will behave immaturely after quarreling with girls, and deleting the other party’s contact information is one of them. This kind of boy himself has an impulsive personality.

4. Let go of each other completely and there is no need to be friends.

I had a relationship with a girl before. After the two broke up, they became strangers to each other. I have completely let go of the other person and no longer want to have anything to do with the other person. There is no need to be friends anymore.

5. He has given up and doesn’t want to have anything to do with you

When a man deletes all the contact information of his ex-girlfriend after breaking up, he will even include her in his circle of friends Uprooting everything related to her actually shows that he really doesn't love you at all. Deleting everything related to you can be regarded as a cool farewell to his last relationship. He hopes to sort out his mentality and start the next life with a new self.

6. He has a new love and is under pressure from his current girlfriend

Maybe sometimes a man deletes his ex’s contact information not out of volition, but he may have already started In a new relationship, in order to express his sincerity to the current woman, he may delete the contact information of his ex to win the favor of the current woman. Today, many girls are particularly concerned that their boyfriends are no longer connected to their exes, so at the beginning of a relationship, they may force their boyfriends to clear out all memories related to their exes, including of course contact information. 2. Love is essentially a kind of exchange of resources. No one wants to be only asked for.

Many people feel that they often give the wrong affection and love with all their strength, but do not get the response from the other party. , and then became disheartened and never dared to love again. There is nothing wrong with liking or loving someone, and there is nothing wrong with wanting a response from the other person. What is wrong is your way of thinking, or the way you try to convince the other person to love you. Learn reverse thinking in love, and you will find that you can have beautiful love. Many boys, if you continue to pursue girls with old-fashioned thinking, you will only be destined to be single.

(1) Is this what you think when you meet a girl you like?

I am going to pursue her.

I have to find a way to make her like me.

I am going to find a chance to convince her and make her accept me and be willing to be with me.

Analysis: If all your thoughts are "I want..." and "I want..." then it can be basically foreseen that the probability of your successful pursuit is very low. Some boys may find it difficult to understand. Is there anything wrong with seeing a girl you like think this way? Indeed, there is nothing wrong with meeting someone you like, wanting to pursue her, and hoping she will like you and accept you.

But if you use this way of thinking to pursue girls, you will find that it is particularly difficult to get along with girls, and it is even more difficult to push forward the relationship.

The reason is very simple. When you are based on your own feelings, all you think about is what I want and what I want. At this time, if you get along with a girl and try to persuade her to agree with you, it is equivalent to asking for something from her. It requires the other party to pay, and of course the other party's instinctive reaction will be resistance.

No matter what kind of relationship you want to establish, the premise must be that both parties can get what they want from the relationship. Only when the other party finds that you can give her what she wants, will she Will take the initiative to give you what you want.

So in fact, love is essentially an exchange of resources. No one wants to be only asked for. In the final analysis, whether it is love or marriage, it should be a win-win relationship. When you want to get something, you must think about what you can give. Three? It’s so boring to help others support their wives, please take these practical tips, male compatriots.

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In love, there are innate differences between men and women. When a woman loves someone, she will give her 100%, and she will feel that what she has given to the other person is "not enough." When a man loves someone, he will only give 60%, and he will feel that he has loved deeply enough. Therefore, when breaking up, if many women are deleted or blocked by men, the way they behave is "No, I can't accept it." The past lingering relationship will make her develop a habit of "being with each other". She will not be able to let go or forget, and will be immersed in the past and find it difficult to let go.

Men, on the other hand, are just the opposite.

He may not love you, but if he wants to continue this relationship, then even if he is far away from you and close to you, he will not delete or block you. And once he wants to end the relationship completely, he will quickly delete or block you, and give you a signal mercilessly: Don't be nostalgic for me, I don't want to have anything to do with you anymore. .

After all, in this world, for a man, there are not so many "constant" things, and there are not so many women who can make him fall in love so much that he wants to fall deeply in love. What he wants is that they have loved each other, and everything is just right; what he wants is that after separation, they can be well and let each other go, which is perfection. Therefore, when most men delete or block a woman from their contact information, what they really want to do is to cut off all contact with you, which is more "ruthless" than you think. Therefore, women, please do not indulge in obsession at this time, forget what should be forgotten, and let go of what should be.

1. A man’s intention to delete and block you is very straightforward: it’s over between you two. Very realistic and very real.

A few days ago, I was sitting next to the square basking in the sun. It happened that a young couple was also nearby, and the two were talking about breaking up. The woman said to the man with an expectant tone: Don't your parents quarrel? How could two people be harmonious and beautiful all the time?

The man did not respond.

The woman went on to say: You pulled my contact information back. I blocked you before, so why don’t you pull me back again? I'm wrong this time, okay? I won't be willful in the future.

The man listened, but still showed no expression. After a while, he responded: Don't come to the company to look for me again, we have broken up. Then, he turned around and left. The woman stood there blankly, with tears in her eyes.

In life, many women will delete and block a person as a test, just like when two people have a dispute and refuse to give in, a woman will block the other person to vent her anger. This is to give men a "lesson";

However, men and women are different.

If he deletes or blocks the woman, then he doesn’t have any unnecessary thoughts. He is just tired of the current relationship with you and doesn’t want to continue with you anymore.

Unfortunately, in life, many women will be immersed in a past love, thinking that the man's deletion and blocking is just a temporary anger, or because they love themselves too much, so they don't want to do it again. See yourself in your contact information. There are also many women who will analyze what it means for a man to block someone and what it means to delete someone.

In fact, most men don’t have so many complex thoughts.

If he still loves you, he will be reluctant to delete you, let alone block you. He will want to continue to pay attention to all your updates and find an opportunity for reconciliation;< /p>

If he doesn’t love you anymore, whether it’s deleting or blocking, it’s just a formality. There is no difference. His only purpose is to tell you: It’s over between you two. Very realistic and very real.

2. If a man deletes or blocks you, it means that he never loved you that much.

I don’t know when someone said: After a breakup, if a man deletes or blocks you, it means that He once really loved you.

Actually, in the hearts of men, this is really not the case. If you have truly loved, you will only wish for some more adhesion, and you will be a little reluctant to let go.

Because people who have loved each other will long to know what the other person’s future will be like, and they will also want to occasionally open the other person’s circle of friends to reminisce about the past, and even occasionally pretend to be ordinary friends. Say hello...Only when you no longer want to love or care about someone anymore, will you block or delete them mercilessly.

You must know that human nature has some "nostalgia for the past".

Just like in "The Great Gatsby", no matter how deeply the heroine hurts him, he will still risk everything to pursue this materialistic girl, and is reluctant to lose contact with her for a moment.

The absurdity in love is that one party thinks it can continue, but the other party is complacent on the way to leaving you. So, women, if a man blocks or deletes you, in fact, he didn’t really love you much.

Don’t think that it’s because he loves you too much, can’t let go, and wants to get out of the past too quickly... That’s why he will immediately delete and block you to stop yourself from being immersed in pain. inside.

Your "self-confidence" is just your fantasy.

It’s very possible that if he blocks you during the day, he can go to the bar to meet the next person by chance at night. Men are lonelier than women, but their love is never "single-minded". They can devote themselves to you when they love you, but they can also be more unfeeling when they leave you.

3. If a man deletes or blocks you, don’t pester her

Many women will feel depressed and angry after a man deletes or blocks her, and may even be suddenly raped by a man. After being blocked, you will still feel resentful and resentful towards the man. In fact, these are behaviors that seem to be hurt after deep love. For a man, if he doesn't love you, your words and deeds will only be a joke in his eyes.

I have seen such a story.

After a woman breaks up with her boyfriend, she still can’t forget him, even though the man has deleted her and has no contact with her anymore. She searched for the man through various channels. She even pretended to be a stranger and added the man's contact information again. She searched in his circle of friends and wondered if he had a new girlfriend; in his Weibo , leaving various traces, as if they are still publicizing their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend.

Later, the man saw right through her and made it clear to her: We are over, stop pestering me. After the woman heard this sentence, she felt as if she was hated because of love. She made all kinds of arrangements and tricks in front of others, and it seemed that she would not stop until the man was ruined.

If a woman is so unable to take up and let go of feelings, then the person you hurt is not him, but you. You have to know that most men's hearts are very "heartless" after a breakup.

If he doesn’t love you anymore, even if you take your heart out and put it in front of him, he will turn a blind eye. What's more, if you use extreme means to get him to change his mind, it's even more impossible.

You have to be clear-headed. Most men are very pure. He loved you in the first place because he had expectations for you; if he blocks or deletes you now, it means he completely doesn’t want to continue with you. , I don’t want to have anything to do with you anymore.

So, anything you do will not have any effect on him. On the contrary, it will expose your inner character of "if you can't get it, destroy it." . Stop being entangled and manage yourself well. One day, you will completely forget about him. Your persistent pursuit is particularly burdensome to someone who doesn't love you.

4. Conclusion:

Look at history. Many women are precocious, especially mentally.

From ancient times to the present, there will always be women who are in love for the first time, and their hearts are secretly promised, while men are infatuated for a moment and forget about it afterwards. As a result, women are affectionate and men are unreasonable, and all kinds of romantic affairs emerge in endlessly. The reason for this is not that women understand love well, but that women are "more passionate" than men and care more about "love" than men.

So, once a woman is deleted and blocked by a man, she will have many more ideas than a man. But, women, you must understand that in love, there are two differences between meeting the right person and the wrong person. The right person, if he falls in love with you, will only want to be with you in this life, and he will not delete or block you; and the wrong person, even if you pester him again, he will not want to give you anything. Any mild color and you continue the front edge.

So, don’t fantasize, don’t deceive yourself and others, show your beauty, release your elegance, don’t think about being someone else’s backup, let go of the past, open yourself up, you will definitely You will meet the person who truly loves you. You have to remember: In the world of love, you need to meet a beloved person who will let you run freely and give you dignity and determination.