30 is not the new 20.

If 20 years old is the most important decade in life, then 30 years old is the turning point that determines the future life. People aged 30 to 30 seem to be labeled as middle-aged. 30 years old means no longer frivolous, but stable and married.

Indeed, when people reach the age of 30, their ideas will change. In our twenties, it seems that we are playing a game of grabbing seats, and everyone is running around and enjoying it. But around the age of 30, the music stopped, and everyone began to sit down one by one. No one wanted to be the only one standing, so we found the chair "nearest" to us ~ it sounded sad.

However, 30 years old is still the curtain in the long river of life, and you can start from scratch. You should "accumulate identity capital", add value to yourself and make an investment in what kind of person you want to be in the future. I believe that identity capital will bring more identity capital and stop meaningless exploration, which is just delaying time. New identity comes from new things. Discover new things and take advantage of those weak connections. People around you may limit your vision and way of thinking.

One cannot choose one's family, but one can choose one's partner. The time to work hard on marriage is now, that is, before marriage, treat love consciously like work. Choosing a family is to consciously choose the people and things you want, not just to succeed or waste time with the people who choose you.

May all of us in our thirties find our own identity capital and choose a good family, and not be defined by what we don't know and don't do. Now, you are deciding your life.

Above, encourage each other.