Reading more books can not only force you, but also force you gracefully.

reading is a part of culture, but culture is not limited to reading. What is culture? This definition is very broad, and no country can accurately and comprehensively summarize culture. The basic definition is extensive knowledge and cultivation rooted in the heart. Where did the knowledge come from? It is usually obtained from reading books. Maybe when the books you have read are taller than your people, you can probably understand the so-called culture.

reading is the only way to Excellence. without reading, how can you be excellent? People who don't study are arrogant, and their manners always lack a little cultural polish. This is most obvious in the current social nouveau riche, whose cultural level can't keep up with economic development, and the manners and manners shown by the psychology of getting rich are particularly grandiose, lacking in quality, and the quality can't keep up with the material, and money can't cover up the smell of the soil turtle. If the nouveau riche were put in ancient times, the truly first-class aristocrats would despise this portal.

If a person is knowledgeable and knowledgeable, such a person will produce a temperament from the inside out without deliberately dressing up. On the contrary, if there is no connotation, no matter how he dresses up, he will not appear to have a temperament.

reading keeps you from falling into the vulgar swamp.

In this impetuous era, people who can read books are becoming more and more valuable. According to the survey, China's per capita reading volume is only .7 books per year, which is not a general disparity compared with the reading volume of dozens of books per capita in European and American countries.

A nation that doesn't study has no future. If Chinese people can't wake up, the future of the nation will be worrying. Culture is the strength of a country, and it is also a kind of personal strength. From national affairs to daily life, there is no place where culture is not needed. It is culture that determines social development.

In daily life, people who study and don't study sit together, and after a few words, they immediately see the real chapter. The words used by the people who study can be seen as unique, and the beauty of the words is everywhere. People who don't read often turn over and over with platitudes and talk tasteless.

even if students pretend to be forced, they can just pretend to be beautiful.

When you see the afterglow of the sunset, you should think of sunset and lonely Qi Fei, and the autumn waters are all the same, not just: I grass, many birds, it's really beautiful.

When it snows, people say, "Wow! It's snowing! " At the time. You can simply say, "Mei Xuxun's snow is three points white, but the snow loses a piece of plum fragrance." Otherwise, quote the poem in A Dream of Red Mansions and sigh: "It's really clean to fall into a vast expanse of white land."

the same snow scene, after cultural processing, does the artistic conception at this moment suddenly rise to another level?

reading has many advantages, one of which is that you can pretend to be good at it at a higher level.

What I want to talk about today is not how to force reading, but how to tear it. Why do you want to talk about this topic? Mainly since this year, I have really torn a lot with people.

sometimes, even if you are not annoying, there are good people to provoke you. The purpose of my life has always been that people don't attack me and I don't commit crimes. If people attack me, I will hit the nail on the head when I can't bear it, and I will use all the sharp words to humiliate it until I die.

For most people, it is a blessing to suffer, so there is no need to be common sense with such people. In my opinion, it is a sign of cowardice and incompetence. People are good at being bullied, and human nature has a kind of psychology of being mean. Retreating in the face of deliberate provocation is tantamount to encouraging the arrogance of such good people.

This year, there have been several troublemakers in the class, and these good people are all aimed at me, the group owner.

at first, the measure was to kick the black sheep out of the group without talking nonsense with such people, and to keep the classmates clean.

what I didn't expect was a group of classmates, and good deeds emerged one after another. After tearing one, there is another. I can't help feeling: after all, I am just a primary school classmate, and my educational level and mind and vision are really unbearable to read.

I'm always unsmiling. Even if I usually tell self-deprecating jokes or dirty jokes in the group for active atmosphere, I'm still talking seriously. I'm just joking seriously. And some people will come out to satirize your typing or think that you can make any jokes and challenge my bottom line many times.

once and twice is a joke. If it is used as a topic every time, it is a deliberate insult, and don't blame me for losing face. I'll give him what he is. I can't bear it again, even if I am a classmate, I can't bear it, and I will directly fight my face. Do your best, use all sharp words to humiliate it incisively and vividly.

In private, my sisters persuaded me: "There is no need to talk nonsense with this kind of beast and lower your level. It doesn't matter if this kind of classmate is improper. We lead our own lives and get along with classmates who are having fun. Don't take this kind of person seriously. So as not to get angry and hurt your body. "

My sisters thought I was hurting my liver and lungs. In fact, I was high, and every time I finished tearing, I had a great pleasure. I am very willful to reply to them in the sister group: "I don't, I will tear it to the end. Why should I put up with these deliberately provocative animals?" What a step back is bullshit. Why should I suppress my emotions for this beast? Instead of sulking afterwards, I might as well pay back my anger twice on the spot. "

I'm an emotional person. I'm angry and I've never wronged myself too much. After listening to my words, my sisters understood that I was a personality envoy, and then they gave their full support. If they were happy, they would tear it up.

Wu Mei also said heroically, "Anyway, I don't contact anyone but you. You forced me to cheer for you. Anyway, I am ready to become a stranger with all my classmates."

how many real friends can you have when you are alive? But I was lucky enough to extract such a group of sisters from my classmates. Seeing that I was bullied, they stood up for me.

I was moved beyond words.

these are small things.

What really makes me feel that reading can be torn gracefully is that N years ago, I used a letter to help a colleague get back justice and tore up an arrogant person. It was the first time that I felt that words were a sword, and its power was sometimes better than guns and ammunition.

A few days ago, I looked through the old logs in QQ space and found that the manuscript of this letter was still kept in the space.

I think of the time when the road was rough and I drew my sword to help.

At that time, watching this docile colleague being bullied by the new master, several of our assistants couldn't help but speak out and help, but this young and energetic master was too arrogant. Despite the public criticism, he was still so self-righteous, didn't apologize, didn't admit his mistake, and really saw what shameless people were and invincible in the world.

in addition, the Boss of the company does not directly manage the board room, and he has been in Germany or Guangzhou for a long time, and he never goes to the board room when he comes back here.

Another elder sister-like colleague sighed helplessly: "What should we do if a board house like ours, which is not directly managed by the boss, meets such a person? How to tell the boss these things? Are you being bullied like this? "

At that time, I remembered the basic legal knowledge and some effective ways to safeguard my own rights and interests. I said vaguely, "Why don't you write a letter to the boss and we'll jointly sign it and tell you what happened tonight?"

I didn't expect everyone to clap their hands in agreement with my casual remark. Whether it works or not, we should do our best, and we can't watch our colleagues being bullied like this. So I came home from work that night, and I took advantage of my anger and wrote a letter.

The content is as follows:

After reading this letter, the situation is clear at a glance, so I don't need to repeat it, and I will directly talk about the later results.

This boss is a college graduate. He has been on a business trip abroad for a long time without an interpreter. He knows English himself. This is really rare in our town, and I only thought of using this method when I heard that the boss is a literate person. If I were a terrapin boss like most uneducated businessmen in town, I wouldn't play the lute to a cow. As a result, the boss called Li Shifu to the office the next day after reading the letter. As for what he talked about, we don't know. It is estimated that he was given an ideological and political lesson.

After returning from the conversation, Li Shifu said to all our assistants, "I've disturbed you recently, brought you trouble and made you unhappy. I hope you will forgive me. Especially assistant Lin Bina, I'm really sorry, but I went too far and didn't know how to respect people. The boss has dismissed me and will never bother you again. "

At that moment, we were delighted to get justice for our colleague Lin Bina.

An outspoken colleague said to him, "Young man, don't be so dragging when you go to other places in the future. Be a low-key person and get along well with others. "

I think it will be an unforgettable lesson in his youthful life.

Afterwards, Lin Bina's colleague sincerely said to me, "Coconut, thank you. I am not as literary as you, and I can only say thank you. If it weren't for you, I would really be bullied like this. " I can feel the gratitude she gave me from the heart at that time, which is enough. A sincere thank you is more important than anything.

other colleagues lamented: "I didn't expect this town to meet such a talented woman in such a crouching tiger, hidden dragon." Although I am often joking narcissism, I am a little overwhelmed by excessive praise in person.

In fact, the more people who read books, the more they realize how big the world is and how small they are. Life is limited, knowledge is infinite, and it is far from enough to explore boundless knowledge with limited youth. So please believe: people who love reading have a heart that will never be proud, and they are always modest in their hearts. Outsiders look at the so-called ostentation and high-profile of intellectuals, which is just a desire of literati to express.

that was the first time I did something meaningful with the power of words. I remember seeing the writer Han Han on the cover of a famous magazine. In the photo, he was holding a pen. At first glance, the pen looked like a dagger. The reason for taking such a photo is that the artistic conception of the photo wants to express that the pen in the writer's hand is comparable to a sword, and the words written by a pen in his hand can beat you out of the water with no effort, and the power of words cannot be underestimated. So some people say that it is better to offend a villain than a writer.

in the face of evil forces, you don't have to sharpen your knife and clean your gun.

Learn to be soft and tough, and use culture to defend yourself.

read more books to tear it gracefully.