Mother and son quarreled, and mother said she would leave like this next time. I don't have a son like you. Will this leave a shadow in the child's heart?

It will leave some shadows, but it is still necessary for mothers to change their way of speaking and reduce the use of verbal violence to talk to their children. Although the mother is very angry in this case, she can express it like this. Your mother is very sad. She tells the children what to do and how to do it. Being angry blindly can't solve the problem. In fact, the quarrel is essentially caused by the opinions of two people, which also shows that the previous communication is invalid. Therefore, in the process of communicating with children, you need to express your opinions, suggestions and your own emotions.

The influence on children requires the joint efforts of the whole family. When children don't understand, fathers need to take the initiative to communicate and relieve.

I hope the above suggestions can help you.