What does a happy marriage require?

A happy marriage requires a sense of ritual

Although they already have a lovely daughter, the two have never been lazy, they have never given up on sweetness, and they will call each other " The baby will also express love in front of his daughter.

Whether it is birthdays or daily interactions, he does not shy away from taking the initiative to create a lot of surprises and romance.

On one occasion it was Qi Wei’s birthday and he arrived at the airport early in the morning due to work reasons. Lee Seung-hyun waited at home to surprise her. He wrote a happy birthday greeting with lipstick on the mirror to express his love to Qi Wei.

For Lee Seung-hyun’s birthday some time ago, Qi Wei cosplayed a set of Yu Ji in the style of Farewell My Concubine to celebrate her husband’s birthday. She said this was his favorite game style, so she went to great lengths to dress herself up as a gamer. The appearance surprised him.

This trip to New Zealand coincided with the fifth wedding anniversary of the two. Lee Seung-hyun said that he would plan a romantic surprise trip for Qi Wei for the two of them.

As soon as he got off the plane, Lee Seung-hyun transformed into the hero of an idol drama, blindfolded Qi Wei, and acted as Qi Wei's guide along the way.

As soon as I arrived at the hotel, I took out the crown ring that I had carefully prepared. I don’t know which ring it was. This persistence came from a joke Qi Wei made when she got married. She said she wanted to see it. Seeing how many rings can fit on two people's hands, I didn't expect that Lee Seung-hyun would take this joke deeply into his heart and regard it as something to be realized.

Walking on the bustling streets of Auckland, he picked up the singer's guitar and sang the song he wrote when he proposed to Qi Wei on the spot.

During the entire journey, Li Chengxuan was not idle and gave Qi Wei one surprise after another along the way.

Although Qi Wei, who has always been straightforward, said that his fancy romantic way was too pretentious, she was still completely moved.

Life requires a sense of ritual, especially love. In a marriage, it is really precious to be willing to spend time on someone.

Carefully creating a little romance in life is the tacit understanding between the two of them. For Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun, the secret to a happy marriage is that no matter how busy they are at work, they never give up the sense of ritual prepared for each other.

The sense of ritual is hidden in the life of daily necessities

A survey conducted by the China Youth Daily Social Survey Center United Questionnaire Network showed that 70.3% of the young people surveyed believed that rituals in marriage Feeling is very important.

Most netizens said that although the sense of ritual is important, it would be too unrealistic to spend so much time and money every day.

But in fact, the sense of ritual does not necessarily have to be grand. In ordinary life, as long as you pay a little attention, you can create a full sense of surprise for the other party.

There is a young couple in Urumqi who have only been married for 129 days. The husband prepares love lunch boxes for his wife every day. The wife has hundreds of photos of the lunch boxes saved on her mobile phone. To her, this is her husband. A simple sense of ritual.

The couple, like most ordinary people, are very busy with their nine-to-five jobs, but the husband still insists on getting up at seven o'clock every morning to make love lunches for his wife, never stopping, and in order to let her His wife eats healthy and nutritious food, and he will plan the menu in advance to ensure that the dishes are not the same for two weeks.

One simple lunch after another carries the husband’s full love for his wife. This small sense of ritual also carries the romantic heroic fantasy in ordinary life.

Even if life is filled with daily necessities, the sense of ritual should not be ignored.

The more trivial the days become, the more we cannot give up the sense of ritual. As long as we are willing to pay attention, the sense of ritual is hidden in every little thing that is no longer earth-shattering, but is extremely thoughtful.

And this little sense of ritual is precisely the best spice of life.