If you save your ex-wife, you will be moved to tears.

Introduction: I sent my ex-wife a sentence "Let's remarry". I thought I would refuse, but I didn't expect a reply, but I was very warm-hearted

Once a friend who had been divorced for many years expressed his deepest and most painful feelings about marriage: some people divorced because they didn't know what kind of marriage should be married, while others divorced because they didn't know what kind of marriage should not be divorced! So for divorced friends, have you really thought about whether your past marriage has brought you some enlightenment in life?

Some couples will still care about each other for one reason or another after divorce, and some people will take the initiative to contact each other to remarry for some reasons, but not all initiatives will have a good ending, only because of their own reasons.

Don't wait until you miss it to remember each other's good. Some people, even if they love you at first, may turn away once you choose to let go, not because TA doesn't love you enough, but because you personally killed all the expectations and hopes that TA has for you. By the time you want to turn around, the water is already hard to collect, and the other party already has another person who is willing to accompany TA to watch the long stream of water.

As can be seen from the chat records, the fuse of the couple's divorce is that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not been handled well, and the man has not played the role of son or husband well, so instead of mediating the contradiction between mother and ex-wife, he has filed for divorce without authorization at this moment.

However, only three days after the divorce, he took the initiative to contact his ex-wife and wanted a divorce. He is as headstrong as a child, no wonder he was directly rejected by his ex-wife. Marriage means responsibility, obligation and dedication. Leaving is like a child's play. If you want to remarry, remarry. Obviously, this is just an adult giant baby whose psychology is not yet mature and sound. How dare the other party easily re-enter the fire pit? !

Some couples choose to divorce, not because there is anything wrong with their marriage feelings, nor because there are irreconcilable principles between husband and wife, but because both sides are too willful. No one is willing to give in to anger for a trifle. Once one party puts forward a divorce, the other party will bite the bullet and agree for the sake of so-called face.

Fortunately, after the divorce, one of the husband and wife is willing to pull their faces down to make peace, and will not regret it for a lifetime because of their willfulness. I sincerely hope that everyone will not give up easily and make any decision in anger. Life is only a few decades, who hasn't stumbled?

Tolerance and understanding are essential for a long-term happiness of a marriage. After getting along for a long time, some couples always complain about why the other person has become different from before. In fact, many times, it is not the other party that has changed, but our love for each other has changed.

Even if the other person has really changed, you should reflect more. Why has the other party changed? Is it because you didn't do it well? When each other can always remember each other's good, what contradictions and problems can't be solved?

In all cases of marital relationship breakdown, infidelity and betrayal are the most unbearable for the other party. Maybe some people will choose forbearance and concession for their children and families, but it doesn't mean that the prodigal son should be accepted and forgiven when he returns.

The reason the woman in the picture above found for her derailment was that she was cheated by the sweet words of Xiaosan, and she also stressed that her favorite was her ex-husband. But if her ex-husband is really her favorite, how can she give others a chance to be cheated by so-called sweet words? In fact, in the final analysis, it is because you don't love enough, or just love yourself.

Finally, it is an old saying of Ma Yili: Although love is easy, marriage is not. Do it and cherish it. May all lovers be well, and may everyone who really loves each other grow old together. Bless you!

The above pictures are from the Internet.