I went to get circumcised secretly. When I came back, I was afraid that others would laugh at me, so I just tore off the circumcision and felt depressed. What should I do?

You are so brave and courageous. If you were in this war era, I believe you must be a very patriotic and good comrade.

1. We do some healthy things for our own health, such as making ourselves better, and doing some minor surgeries that are beneficial to our physical and mental health. These are normal and are for our own good and a better future.

Two. It's a very private thing. If we don't tell anyone, no one will know what happened? It's like there's a leak in the sole of our shoe. It's like having holes in our socks. If we don't tell anyone, no one will know what happened to you? As long as you don't embarrass yourself. No one will be embarrassed.

Three. It's because you care too much that you always feel that others have discovered your secrets, and you are even more afraid of depression and inferiority. If I spend my own money to treat my illness, what does it have to do with others? Besides, I'm thinking about myself, so do I need other people's permission for a minor surgery? So if I have a double eyelid surgery, do I need other people’s approval? So we take ourselves too seriously. We are not the best in anyone's mind, nor are we people who care about someone very much. So what does it have to do with others when we live our own lives? We may think that we are excellent and important in the eyes of others, but who takes us seriously? I'm not anyone's so-and-so, so don't be self-centered. I'm just an ordinary citizen. Not many people will pay attention to a certain thing I do, because I'm not a news figure. Fengyun figure. So you don’t have to take him to heart about my affairs. You always feel that you will be discovered by others and looked down upon by others. Then you are dead wrong. We are just ordinary people doing nothing. No one will pay special attention to you. No one will go out of their way to observe you, care about you, or value you. So when we treat certain things with a normal mind, we will find that we are ordinary. If you have the same idea as me, just adopt it!