What you don't know is lost in Russia.

Three days have passed since the Spring Festival in 2020, and the Spring Festival movies have been completely withdrawn due to the outbreak of the epidemic. This Spring Festival is not as lively as going out to visit relatives for dinner. Everyone stays at home and just walks around in their living room. Doby's own dog, everyone has celebrated this Spring Festival, with snacks and WiFi. In the face of the epidemic, we are United as one. For ordinary people, staying at home is the greatest contribution to society.

When all the Spring Festival movies were closed, Lost Russia spent the Spring Festival with us in its way, and played it for free on major mobile phone lines. I stay at home and grow mushrooms. While warming up with my parents, I decided to play it for my family and watch it with them. Because my parents can't use smart phones, my mother and I both want to watch movies on their mobile phones. Then I wanted my mother to be happy, so I played the movie Lost in Russia with traffic.

The relationship between Ivan and his wife has deteriorated. Ivan and his dream-chasing mother unexpectedly went to Moscow because of their passports. Surprises and accidents along the way, quarrels and exchanges along the way, Ivan's relationship with his wife and mother has changed a lot.

Partners do not transform each other, but grow up with each other.

The film begins with an argument between Ivan and his wife. The wife said, "Why do you insist on transforming me?" My wife didn't like that artificial desk lamp from the beginning, but Ivan thought she always liked it.

When two people get along, there will be an ideal partner who unconsciously wants to change each other to conform to their living habits and fantasies. I unconsciously thought of "Two Husbands in the Kitchen"/s/jql7jnd0g60gzmvmmg1lev, which was mentioned by Mr. Gusi before.

It is inevitable that there will be problems when two people get along. The terrible thing is that they don't know the root of the problem and how to deal with it. Learn to get along, face the problems in the relationship together and grow together.

It is not difficult to see from the dialogue between the two sides that the relationship between Ivan and his mother is not harmonious and there are problems. Ivan ran home to find his passport and found a big lock on the door. In desperation, he had to go to the railway station to visit his mother. After getting on the train, I angrily blamed my mother for adding a big lock, yelled at her, and finally said I wanted to take the key.

Ivan is in a bad mood because of his wife. In the conversation with his mother, he unconsciously began to "do whatever he wants". Because of the blame in his words and the impact in his tone, his mother was very sad. Both of them were silent.

Isn't this what my mother and I used to get along with every day? I am patient and kind to others, but I will be wronged and stingy. At the moment I talk to my mother, like a volcanic eruption, my grinning face growled at my mother. Finally, both sides were silent. As a mother, she is very sad. As a child, she expressed her inexplicable emotions, but she began to feel guilty and ashamed.

This state has been seen by me and happened to me. I'm stuck in it and don't know how to get rid of it. Later, because I participated in a volunteer visit to a nursing home, I spent that time with all kinds of old people, learning how to accompany them and how to perceive their inner ups and downs. Every life needs to be cared for, so we don't analyze, judge or define, only love and companionship.

In this Spring Festival, I try to pay close attention to my parents' appearance, try to be patient, try to communicate with simple words and try not to treat my mother subjectively. After doing this, my relationship with my mother is obviously much better, and it also brings joy to her from time to time. This feeling is good, and this happiness is wonderful.

When Jining was getting off the bus, I found a big white rabbit stuffed in my pocket from my mother. Because I didn't have breakfast, my mother told Ivan to leave, but I was still lying on the window listening to Ivan who was leaving. I still hoped my son would accompany me to Moscow to perform a dream.

No matter how many quarrels, you are also my child.

My mother helped. Every time Ivan makes an excuse not to go, he always says he can go to Moscow. This conductor is a bit cute!

Mom's stubbornness

Mom actually sees everything clearly and understands why you want to hire a nanny and why you are willing to spend a lot of money. Isn't this a reflection that many children don't want to spend some time with their families and get along with their parents? I would rather pay a high price for a nanny than be serious with my parents.

Today, I saw Mr. Gussie's explanation. He said, don't stay with your family because of the gains and losses of money, because once your family leaves, no matter what way, it can't be recovered. Be sure to spend your time on the most important thing-being with your family. The most important thing in life is not to save time /s/vx-gUW4A-MIjfipd8FP2yw.

Ivan really became a white rabbit toffee, hahahahahaha. It's so cute.

The conductor kept saying, "Be sure to make it to the end!" In fact, it shows that Ivan can't finish the work.

Finally, I had a big fight with my mother because of marriage problems, and I was tired of my mother's nagging, restraint and teaching.

During the quarrel, Ivan totally blamed his father's pain and depression on his mother's nagging and self-righteousness, and his father's death on his mother's anger. This time, my mother got off the train in tears.

In the Woods, my mother told Ivan the truth. It turns out that Ivan's father will get drunk and hit people after drinking. When Ivan came home as a child, he found the house in a mess. My mother lied to him that Ivan was a thief at home because he was young. Ivan said, "I will protect you." From that moment on, my mother decided to live for Ivan and endure each other's domestic violence. After quarreling with Ivan, my mother understood that Ivan had his own life and lifestyle, and she interfered in Ivan's life too much.

The greatness of a mother lies not in how great things she has done, but in what she has done silently for her children. Give your youth and energy and love your child wholeheartedly in your own way, but the mother forgets that the child is also an independent individual and has the right to life. The mother should learn to let go.

Ivan reconciled with his mother, took her to the Red Star Grand Theatre to perform and let her sing on stage, which fulfilled her dream of performing on stage. When you have a strong desire to accomplish something, the world will come to help you. I missed the train, but I met a hot air balloon and took them to the theater.

It was because I was late that I couldn't perform, but my mother looked at the microphone standing on the stage as if calling her. She went to the stage in desperation, singing her dreams, regardless of whether the audience was playing or not, regardless of the result. Because of the love in my heart and the persistence in my dreams.

My mother sang a story about herself and her lover, so touching and beautiful, but in the end we separated, because time was born and life died. Mom once said, "We are together because we love each other, but we never thought that everything would be different after living together." . The only constant in the world is always changing.

Mom's performance was very successful, and Ivan gave her a big hug, which corresponded to the question at the beginning of the film. This hug makes Ivan feel good. In fact, happiness has always been around, in our own hands. A small move and a warm word are all happy experiences.

Ivan said, "For more than 20 years, we have been arguing with our mother for the longest time, but our starting point is love for each other. This love is to hope that the other person will live the way he wants. Everyone is an independent individual, and each individual should be completely in love, not controlling and demanding, but accepting and respecting. "

Harvest and find a precious love in this interesting and healing journey.

This is the epitome of everyone, and it is a topic that everyone should ponder and learn, how to get along with their partners and how to get along with their parents.

At the end of the movie, Amy's mother is in front of the dresser. I suddenly woke up when Ivan's mother took off her wig. I finally understand why her mother is so persistent, why she wants to perform in Moscow, and why she wants to realize her regrets many years ago. Ivan is no longer a child because his mother is old, but as parents, they are also growing up. They are old, not physically strong, and their memories are not very good, so they are suspicious. Time will never stop because of anything. Give time to people who love themselves and love them seriously.

Bravely pursue your dreams, and time is running out.

Treat your family and friends with care and be grateful to everyone you meet.

Do it, love it, right here.