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In the custom of funeral activities, can the elders give the younger generation "Dai Xiao"?

Our country has stipulated many customs since ancient times, including weddings, funerals and weddings, all of which have their own views. Although these customs may be different in different regions, only some subtle differences, the overall trend and manifestations are still similar. In addition to the wedding, there are also their own sayings. When a family member dies, the funeral also has its own ceremony. In the custom of funeral activities, the elders don't have to give it to the younger generation Dai Xiao, otherwise it will violate the seniority and become a joke.

1. Pima Dai Xiao had a lot to pay attention to at the funeral. Whenever an old man dies at home, the younger generation will give him Pima Dai Xiao, and Pima Dai Xiao here is also divided into many different clothes. Every kind of clothes is distinguished according to the blood relationship with the elderly. For example, the biological children of the elderly and their biological granddaughters and grandchildren. The clothes they wear are different from those of some nephews, so blood relationship still plays a very important role in distinguishing funeral customs.

Second, the Confucian custom at the time of marriage, which is a major event in life, will be more festive on the whole, but when it comes to the funeral, because it is more unfortunate and sad, there is no need to make a fuss. In the Confucian system, what the younger generation expresses to the elder Dai Xiao is a kind of respect and mourning for the elder, and it can also show a kind of filial piety to the elder, which is more in line with the core of Confucianism.

Third, there is a saying that it is good for white-haired people to send black-haired people. Tomorrow or accident never knows which comes first. In daily life, there are many examples of white-haired people sending black-haired people. At this time, it involves whether the elders need Dai Xiao. When holding a funeral for the younger generation, the elders don't have to wear filial piety for them. Such behavior also abides by the Confucian blood system. If the elder is the younger generation Dai Xiao, it will be a joke in the eyes of others, and there is basically no mistake in such a very serious occasion as a funeral.