Why is it so difficult for young people to get married nowadays?

Why is it so difficult for young people to get married nowadays? Because it is difficult for everyone to skip these four stages when looking for a partner or going on a blind date.

In the first stage, 80 men and women who met for the first time were brushed off because of their education, appearance, and height less than 180cm (men only). It was difficult to enter the next level. Now people are more interested in change. The next generation has excellent genes, so it is very rare for them to fall in love with each other.

In the second stage, we finally got into a state of liking each other and contacted each other a few times. The results were based on whether we can chat humorously, whether we are warm-hearted, whether we work in the same city, etc., etc., not yet. When you enter the state of love, you are left alone. If it develops too quickly, you will feel that the other person is a bit scumbag. If it develops too slowly, you will feel that the other person is too honest. Only a few people will enter the next stage.

In the third stage, this is when the relationship enters the running-in period. Generally, the woman requires the man to accompany him to various shopping malls on weekends to buy and eat, and come back to post various social media posts. The financial situation is poor. If you can't bear it in advance, you will take the initiative to retreat. If you can bear it, you will serve it carefully and don't dare to say anything. If there is any friction during the period, you will try to think of the other party changing to suit you. In the end, you will find that no one can cater to anyone. In the end, you feel If you don’t like it, you choose to escape or give up, so only a smaller number of people can reach the marriage stage

In the fourth stage, the two parties begin to discuss marriage. They find that there are factors such as house, car, income, family financial situation and In the future, issues such as support for the elderly and children cannot be discussed, and they may part ways. In fact, at this stage, it is the most painful decision for both parties. Because of the accumulation of feelings in the early stage, there are very few people who can successfully get married in the end.