Is raising children to prevent old age a joke?

Going out to work in the morning, walking in the yard, I heard my uncle and aunt chatting behind me. Uncle asked: Do both sons eat here? Aunt replied: Yes, they are all here. There is no lack of helplessness between words. My aunt has two sons. After they got married, they each had a child. Plus the old couple, there are eight people in all. Think about eight people waiting for dinner every day. Aunt has to go out to buy food early in the morning. I can't help but get a fright. I'm almost seventy, my eldest son is in his early forties, and my second son is six years old and over thirty. I want to retire and enjoy my life, but it's very tiring for anyone who wants to do housework!

People say that raising children to prevent old age is not anti-aging, but that the more sons you have, the more you chew. The more children you have, the more the old people have to pay!

In that era when labor was needed, boys were labor, and they all liked to have boys. Nowadays, parents and even grandparents are "squeezed" by the standard phenomenon of getting married and having a suite. I don't know when getting married and buying a house has become standard. How many young people have the strength to buy a house in these 20 years? where is the money to come from? Parents, grandparents, grandparents, and online comments about buying a house with six wallets, pour the power of the whole family to buy a suite for the next generation. At this time, it is not to raise children to prevent old age, but to raise children to prevent old age. Does anyone still expect to raise children for old age? Raising a son seems to be synonymous with burden.

Some people say that children are not accessories of marriage, and parents are just passers-by in their children's lives. Parents should quit in time and children should have their own lives. But the reality is that China people's parents, if not the most selfless parents, must also take care of the most parents, such as eating, going to school, buying a house, getting a wife and bringing up grandchildren. When does it seem that there is no time limit and it is impossible to move? Is it so hard to pay for the extravagant filial piety at the last moment of life?

China's elderly people basically do not have their own pension life now, and they are all around their children and grandchildren. I met two or three old ladies on the bus and discussed going out for shopping by free bus. The discussion was very interesting. I feel that this is the real old age life, without the burden of children, self-centered and full of vitality.

In some families, the elderly must work hard and their children need the help of their parents. However, there are also some elderly people who are subjectively unwilling to leave their children's lives. After retirement from work, they have no direction in life, and their sense of value will shift from work to family. They feel that taking care of their children and grandchildren is the whole of their old life. One day, if their children no longer need them,

Old people in China are tired by their children and grandchildren, and at the same time, they interfere with their children's lives too much while paying, which is also the reason for the high incidence of family conflicts, whether intentionally or unintentionally.

Society is changing, and so are ideas. From the beginning of the family planning policy, which was not accepted by the public, some families tried their best to have one more child. Now that the second child policy is fully liberalized, the younger the couple, the less they want to have children. Or in a few decades, with the progress of society, the life of the elderly will be rich and colorful. When you are old after 80, you can stay away from your children's lives and live more for yourself.