How can I say what I'm thinking in a joke?

How much truth is said in a joke, and how much truth is expressed in a joke. When we speak our minds as a joke, people who don't want to understand won't understand anything. However, many times, there are many words that you want to express sincerely, but you can't say them for various reasons.

how much truth is said in a joke and how much truth is expressed in a joke. When we speak our minds as a joke, people who don't want to understand won't understand anything. However, many times, there are many words that you want to express sincerely, but you can't say them for various reasons.

I like a person very much, but I'm afraid to reveal my inner monologue to her (him), and I can't get the response I want from him. I'm afraid that it's good to be friends. Once I say something, it's ok to say it, but it's impossible to even be friends. How embarrassing it is to meet. However, there is a faint unwillingness in my heart, and some people are reluctant to be friends here. Maybe telling her (him) will have another result. Many people hold this mentality and choose to show their mind to him/her on a day like April Fool's Day. If they are rejected, they can also say with a smile: I'm joking with you, and you actually take it seriously. Then turn around and leave lost.

Are you also a person who always says something against his will in front of the person he likes, damaging him, praising him, deliberately playing the devil's advocate, and not wanting him to understand his true thoughts? However, those sweet words can never find the right opportunity to express themselves, but they can't say what they care about. I'm afraid that after I say it, I won't get a response, but it will destroy each other's previous good impression. So a lot of truth is spoken in a joking tone, while expecting him to respond, while laughing heartlessly, I'm joking with you to cover up my loss.

I am a cheerful and frank girl, who likes to be lively and joking with others. There is never a shortage of good male buddies around me. He is one of them. I can't remember when I started to have feelings for him. When I realized it, I found that I was already in love. Because they are very close, they have played all kinds of jokes. I once said that if you can't find someone you love, you can just make do with it. It has also been said that future boyfriends should be found according to his standards, as handsome as sunshine, as considerate and caring as well as humorous. Perhaps from that time on, I have had feelings for him that transcend friends.

Later, I still maintained the previous relationship, eating, drinking and playing all kinds of jokes together, but I knew I liked him, and that feeling could not deceive me. I pay more attention to his every move, and I can't help but look at him and care about his every word and what I say. When a girl accosts him, he can't help but feel out. I will also want to find a suitable opportunity to express my mind, but I can't muster the courage. Because I am too familiar with it, I always know what kind of girl he likes, and I know that it is not his type. I am afraid that my confession will make the distance between us far away and I will never return to the beginning.

people can control their emotions when they are awake, but they can't control them after they are drunk. It was my birthday, and then I invited a large group of friends to celebrate my birthday. I only remember drinking a lot that day, saying a lot, and then breaking the film. I didn't know what I had been afraid to say until I heard it from my friend the next day. I said it that day while I was drunk. But they think you're just talking nonsense after being drunk. When I got up the courage and decided to have a complete showdown, I said, what if what I said is true? They all agree that you are not fully awake and joking. See, people who are used to joking, the only time you are serious will be considered a joke. Then, in the noise, quietly away.

I am such a person who is used to pretending my emotions and pretending that I don't care. I can speak a lot of WeChat words, but I never admit my weakness. The surface is as cold as an iceberg, but I don't want to show my sadness outside and let people know my sadness. I would rather deceive myself and pretend I don't care. I really like him. Therefore, I have a soft spot for alcohol, because drinking will make me feel that I can stop thinking about him temporarily, because only when I am drunk can I tell him the secret of my heart, express it in an unconscious way, and give myself room to recover. Even if you fail, you can cover it up with drunken nonsense; That's why I added a sentence after what I said many times: Haha, you are serious, I'm joking. Only in this way can we retain the last bit of dignity and not be defeated.

But only you know the truth behind those jokes, and many times you blurt out a lot of things: for example, you don't like it, for example, you go, for example, you don't miss it, but these things that can be easily said are the most against your will. We are always like this. We are not good at expressing the softest parts of our emotions, but we can express those hard ones easily. I often wonder, if we can all be less duplicitous and more honest with each other, will we live a simpler life? In fact, we have been looking for someone who knows you all our lives. He can see through all your duplicity and read the expression behind your jokes. Understand your silence and take care of your childishness carefully.

Not only myself, around me, in TV dramas and novels ... all those words spoken in a joking tone are so sincere

If at the age of 3, you are unmarried and I am unmarried, then, can I marry you?

They are good friends. They have been good friends since high school, then college, then graduation, and then work.

until she said she was going to get married, he was very sad and thought it was time to give up love and be a lifelong friend, but she was lovelorn because her boyfriend cheated on her. He was at a loss for joy, jumping and jumping like a child.

He went to comfort her, take care of her, and let her get out of the shadow of lovelorn. Then, he said, "If at the age of 3, you are unmarried and I am unmarried, then, can I marry you?" . She thought it was just to comfort her, just a joke and didn't take it seriously.

It was not until half a year later that she came out of the shadow of lovelorn love, and he left that she found that she had already fallen in love with him, but she didn't know his mind.

So, the day before she turned 3, she threatened him with that sentence that she didn't know whether it was true or not. No matter what he thought, she took it seriously anyway. She stopped being his good friend and wanted to be his girlfriend.

They ended well and finally got together, because he has always liked her since high school.

Who wants a woman like you? Why don't I kill you for the people!

She is a very strong woman, a woman, karate, careless, and sometimes confused. She has never been in love and has always been single.

He and she have always been good friends. Because of her confusion, he is not sure what she thinks and doesn't know how to speak.

Finally, he found an opportunity at a friend's party. He drank a little wine, and with the strength of the wine, he said to her, "Who wants a woman like you? Why don't I take you for the people!" . She laughed and said that he was drunk, and thought it was just a joke. Then she said heartlessly that she didn't want a man like him, even she couldn't beat him.

Actually, he is not drunk, but he would rather be drunk, so that he won't remember her answer and hear the sound of heartbreak.

in the end, they didn't get together and became good friends for life. It was not until many years later that they were old and recalled the past.

She mentioned what he said when he was drunk as a joke, and then he told her that I wasn't drunk that day, which was true. Then, there were tears in the corner of her eyes, so they missed each other.

Many jokes are made with sincerity. Because they are afraid of losing, they try carefully in this way, but this way is often misleading.

So, sometimes, joking is not just joking, you should feel it with your heart, and you should know that most of the words spoken in a joking tone are sincere.

You need to find out whether love comes or not. If you don't find out, even if love comes, it won't stay in the same place waiting for you. If you find that love has come, you should try to hold on to it, and don't let it slip away inadvertently.

For the rest of my life, I hope we can all meet him in our hearts, and we can shed our disguise and truly express our inner feelings. Don't let miss become miss and regret become regret.