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A joke about taking care of her mother-in-law after divorce

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Although both husband's family and mother's family are a family, for couples, they are usually good at raising their own families, but they don't care so much about each other's families.

Traditionally, many people feel that daughter-in-law has the obligation to take care of her in-laws, even more than her own biological parents. Of course, this is unreasonable because a son-in-law is not necessarily like a daughter-in-law.

Personally, I think that while a man is filial to his parents, he should also have "empathy" for his wife, instead of thinking that everything should be done by your wife. Filial piety should be done by the parties concerned, and the partner should be helpful, not neglected.

One year before Han Han and Wang Peng got married, Wang Peng's mother was hospitalized because of high blood pressure, and later she was paralyzed in bed because of serious illness. Because Wang Peng is an only child, there is no one to take care of her mother in her hometown. It is precisely because of this that her wife Yu Han is very sensible and takes the initiative to take care of her mother-in-law in the city.

Later, Han Yu became pregnant, but she still took good care of her mother-in-law and never slacked off. Even during childbirth, her mother came to help her. Han Yu's mother is also a kind old man. At that time, she had to take care of her daughter, her little daughter and her mother-in-law who was paralyzed in bed. Mothers can do this. In fact, to put it bluntly, it's all because she loves her daughter. Who doesn't expect her daughter to live well?

Han Yu felt that he owed a lot to his mother, but her mother said, "I am also very moved to see you being so filial. We wish you all the best. "

After having children, Han Yu has to take care of the children, her mother-in-law and go to work. Not trusting the nanny to take care of her, Wang Peng asked Han Yu to quit her job and let her be a housewife. Although Yu Han doesn't want to, if she goes to work, she can't take care of the children and the elderly, and she can't live without her at home. Finally, she had to give up her job opportunity.

Han Yu has done a lot for this family, and it is also because her mother-in-law can't live without people, so Han Yu rarely goes back to her family, and her sister takes care of her family.

Time flies, five years have passed, and my mother-in-law has been paralyzed in bed for five years, taking care of her day and night. Now my mother-in-law is getting older and older, and she can't do without her son's care. Sometimes she doesn't even know her own son.

I don't know if you have found a problem: many men are filial to their parents. In the final analysis, they want their wives to be filial, but they are relaxed. They told their wives that they were obliged, but in fact, their wives were not obliged to help him look after their parents, nor should they.

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Han Yu's home is also in the countryside. When it rained, there was a section of the road that was not easy to walk and muddy, and my mother accidentally fell off her leg. Big sister was busy at that time, and only her parents were at home. She is worried and wants to go back to her parents' house to take care of her mother.

But there is no one here to take care of her mother-in-law, and she is not at ease with no one to take care of her children. So she discussed it with her husband: "Let's hire a nanny first and let my mother go back to take care of her."

But I didn't expect my husband to say, "Just take care of my mother."

"What about my mother?"

"Your mother and your father, isn't it? And you can't take care of them all your life, and neither can your sister? You haven't taken care of them or said anything about you for so many years. Who do you think you don't take care of? "

Yu Han was very angry when he heard this: "She is just my mother-in-law, and the most important thing is your own mother. I have taken care of you for five years, and I have done my best, which is enough. " My sister is very busy. She always takes care of her. Why should I take care of your mother instead of mine? For five years, I gave up my job to take care of your mother. Shouldn't you meet my mother like this? Do you have a conscience! "

Hearing this, Wang Peng was in a bad mood. Speaking between the lines, he said, "Don't be dissatisfied. After playing at home for so many years, you still have to take care of the children and the elderly. You still have so many things. Daughter-in-law, it is natural for you to marry and take care of my mother, but I am not responsible for your parents when you marry. Moreover, I gave your family money for the bride price. "

Hearing this, Han Yu stopped playing. Suit yourself. It's your mother anyway. I really don't care. I don't believe this. I don't care if you can. That's what men do. Many times, women are used to it. If you are too kind to him, he will show you no mercy.

Silent, she didn't answer, directly holding the child back to her family.

In my opinion, to be honest, Wang Peng really went too far and was too selfish. In many marriages I have seen, this is the case. The wife does everything at home and respects her in-laws, while the man only knows how to eat, drink and be merry when he returns to his mother-in-law.

Such a man, 100% is selfish, no matter what his wife does in her husband's house, it seems to be right, but as long as she does something for the family, she will be said by the man. Obviously, this is how things are done, but when you get to your mother's house, men's attitudes are different. If you don't help yourself, you won't say it. You also ask your wife not to help and leave her family alone.

How can there be such a truth under the sun? Marry you, she is a real person, not sold to your "big momma".

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Writing this article reminds such a man to ask himself: Why do women work so hard at her husband's house, no matter whether her mother-in-law is good or bad? What makes you overbearing as a mistress in your mother's house? You can't see that your wife is kind to your mother's family.

Just like parents who prefer boys to girls, a man can't do "a bowl of water is flat", and the differential treatment of his husband's family is unbearable and unfair. In my opinion, two people can live a happy life only if they really treat the woman's family as their own, otherwise even the best feelings will be torn apart because they can't handle the treatment of their parents well.

A man's responsibility is not limited to being kind to his wife and children, running a good family and giving his family a better life. More importantly, he can support his responsibility. The woman's parents only have two daughters. Shouldn't the woman support the elderly?

Therefore, even if a woman marries someone, she can't forget that she still has to take care of her parents at home. Even the man is not good to his parents. If he doesn't care, how can he be worthy of his parents' kindness? Married daughters are not splashing water, and filial piety is also a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which cannot be forgotten or ignored.

Moreover, when a woman gets married, her family will always be her family. Even if the marriage is unfortunate, this family will bear all your grievances. Unlike your husband's family, you have been wronged and can only go back to her family and tell her.

In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, since two people form a family together, they should be responsible for their own family, their lover and respect each other's family. The attitude of two people who are really reasonable towards marriage is that they can take the initiative to be kind to each other's families, even a bowl of water is flat, so that the relationship between husband and wife can last long and the marriage can be happy.

Why are we getting married? To put it bluntly, life is too hard, and there are many things to bear together. Take the fact that parents need to take care of them. In the future, parents need to provide for the elderly, and you should fulfill your obligations to each other. You can manage your parents separately, but the other half is helpful. I don't think the man should transfer the responsibility of taking care of his mother to his wife, but you should play the main role and the wife is just an assistant.

Women should remember not to spoil men in marriage. If you do everything, people will not only be ungrateful, but also find fault. Just let him bear it himself. You can help.