Have you ever run away from home?

I listened to FM932 channel on the way from work that day, and the host was broadcasting "Looking for You". A 6-year-old girl ran away from home at night because she quarreled with her mother and wore a pink coat. ...

I was shocked to hear that the little girl is so precocious now that she dared to run away from home at the age of six! The cold leaves are so dark, where can the little girl go? Her mother is probably crazy, all kinds of regrets, all kinds of guesses, all kinds of uneasiness; Maybe the little girl ran away from home just to drive her mother crazy. She just hides not far from home, can see the lights at home, and knows that her family is looking for herself in and out. She just wants to make sure that she is in the eyes of her parents and that they love her. She just wants to make sure of one thing in this way.

Two days later, I also heard on the radio that the little girl found it and went to her relatives' home more than ten kilometers away. In this crowded era, it is really something to be thankful for.

The girl's family is mixed and tangled in the process of looking for her, which is completely imaginable. The first time I learned this sentence, I saw a movie with the same name when I was a child, which seemed to be a Hong Kong movie. Really understand the heaviness of this sentence, probably after getting married and becoming a parent.

I once read an article in which there was a point that "a person who really knows how to be grateful to his parents is about 2 1 year old". I don't know how this exact age is calculated, but it is probably meaningful as an "opinion". Children who know how to be grateful will sympathize with their parents and will not "punish" their parents with "running away from home" or "beating away", right?

A question suddenly occurred to me: Have you ever run away from home? Or, have you ever thought about running away from home? Grow up.

I know.

Mai Jia, who won the Mao Dun Literature Prize, once told a story about his childhood. When I was a child, I was beaten by my parents and decided to run away from home with the peddler. After a long walk, the peddler saw him and said to him:

"You go home. When I was a child, my family was bitter. Like you, I felt that living was boring. One night, a big bird flew in from the window with a vendor's drum in its mouth and said to me,' You will be a vendor in the future' ... Maybe one day, this bird will fly to your home. "

After the writer became famous, he described his childhood poetically. The writer Mao Mu also created a hero in The Moon and Sixpence. He was a securities broker. He seemed to have a stable career and a happy family, but he gave up everything in middle age, ran away from home, lived with the aborigines of the South Pacific island countries, and died in poverty.

I used to think that everyone might have thought about "running away from home". I have a friend who is the youngest child in my family. Southerners call him "Lao Yao". When I was a child, my family was poor and I always wore my brother and sister's little clothes. My brother's clothes are always expensive, and it is a great shame for me to wear them to school and be laughed at by my classmates. A neighbor's uncle once joked with him that "you are not your mother's biological child, but this family picked you up ..." So he had the idea of running away from home to find his biological parents. When they grow up, as a joke, children who have been troubled by the idea of "running away from home" really have growing pains or pains.

I had an experience of "running away from home" myself, which I never told anyone. Even I thought my parents didn't know it was a "run away from home". It was probably a summer night in the second grade of primary school, at seven or eight o'clock in the evening. My mother went to bed early because she had to work the night shift that day. She works in a family factory in the army. She goes to work at 0/2 o'clock in the evening/kloc-and gets off work at 7 o'clock in the morning. It's very hard. Later, I took this class in the factory, and even got up at four o'clock in the morning to work in the workshop because of seasonal power failure, only to know that my mother's life was not easy.

At that time, my family lived in a bungalow, and my children and I were playing outside in the yard. Of course, there will be a lot of noise, no matter my mother has to work at twelve o'clock at night. She told me to go home, and if I didn't go home, she wouldn't look good, as if she locked the door in anger. I was angry too, so I decided to run away from home.

In fact, there is nowhere to go. Remember to go north and come back when you walk to Gangshan Cinema. I really can't think of any place to go. I wandered around the yard for several times, vaguely seeing my father looking for me from door to door, so I hid in the ladies' room ... Then at night, I ran to the stone steps in front of my house and planned to sleep there for one night, which was seen by my father.

This is "being a teenager".

Running away from home is not a child's patent. Probably many adults have also had the idea of "running away from home" for various reasons. "The moon represents lofty ideals, and sixpence represents reality." Or the body has not left home, and the heart has left home.

Once, when I was still cleaning up in the kitchen after dinner, my father and I ate in the restaurant and didn't bring me chopsticks. I was suddenly very angry, expressed my anger and dissatisfaction, dropped my apron and went out. Walking to the door of the community, I suddenly remembered that summer night when I was a child and suddenly felt that I had nowhere to go. On second thought, that's my home. Why should I go? ! ..... and then turn around and go home, not more than a quarter of an hour before and after.

As an "experienced person", I understand the mood of the 6-year-old girl searched on the radio. Running away from home is a very tragic move. Whether a child or an adult, if he or she can feel love or his or her love is felt, he or she will not go far.

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