The wedding bride wants 90 thousand to change her mouth, and her mother-in-law is angry: If you don't change your mouth, what do you think of your saying that your mother is too expensive?

Getting married is an expensive thing. Without money, everything is difficult at the beginning.

That's right! Marriage is a happy event in life and a matter of burning money. Before getting married, you need to prepare the wedding room, bride price money, three gold hardware, take wedding photos, prepare the wedding banquet, rent a wedding car, and hire a master of ceremonies. These all cost money.

At weddings, there are many places to spend money. The money in the pocket can't be spent or taken out. Too stingy. But if you don't spend money, others will think you are stupid.

The concept of money at the wedding reveals human nature.

There is a saying: the money spent is called celebration, praying for the new couple and sending good and happy wishes. On the contrary, money that should not be spent must be spent, which is called losing face, social status and hurting family ties.

In the process of the wedding, temporarily change your attention and put forward harsh conditions for the other party to passively accept. This unreasonable and unreasonable demand is like a shackle, which is put around each other's neck and the integrity of human beings collapses.

Are you going to accept this unreasonable request? If you don't accept it, the wedding has been moved to the dining table, relatives and friends have arrived, and the wedding has not yet entered the bridal chamber. Is it necessary for this couple to break up? But if you accept this request, it will be too indecent. What's the difference between this and a slaughtered lamb?

It sounds incredible, but it did happen to a friend named Liu Jun. What did he meet in the letter? Let's look down together

The door is not right, and there is a hidden crisis.

The combination of Wang Na and Liu Jun is a dark war.

At the wedding, Wang Na's mother quietly told her daughter that she suddenly asked her mother-in-law for a change fee of 90,000 yuan. At that time, Wang Na was taken aback, but her mother said that the Liu family had a lot of money to do business, which was not so bad. She thought that her brother's 20% down payment for getting married and buying a house was hollowed out, and she felt sorry for her parents, so she compromised.

When providing tea, Wang Na proposed to change the fee to 90,000 yuan. Mother-in-law's face sank down, and Liu Jun poked Wang Na with her arm, saying that's enough. But Wang Na thought of her mother's face and the bride's house that had just been hollowed out, so she ignored Liu Jun's hint and waited for her mother-in-law's response.

Liu Jun, the only child in the family, is a local civil servant with superior family economic conditions. Her parents wanted to find a suitable family for her, but they couldn't get rid of their son's determination to give everything for love, so no matter what harsh conditions the other party put forward, she agreed.

When they fell in love, Liu Jun's parents were very picky about their relationship. Wang Na has no formal job, and his home is in the countryside, with no cultural background. Parents prefer boys to girls, but they are vampires to their daughters. The whole family lives on Wang Na's salary as a shop assistant in a shopping center. She felt sad for what happened to Wang Na, but as a mother, he felt even more sad for his son, fearing that Wang Na would drag him down for life.

Test humanity at the wedding and lose affection.

Wang Na thinks that Liu Jun can give a bride price of 300,000 yuan, but the change fee of 90,000 yuan should not be given. If you don't give it, you just don't love yourself enough and marry the wrong person. She wants this opening fee, on the one hand, for her family, and on the other hand, for testing the depth of love.

Wang Na's mother temporarily proposed a change fee of 90,000 yuan, which embarrassed Liu Jun's family. After all, the children she has worked so hard to raise cannot be given away for nothing. She is testing the money.

The Wangs' mother and daughter staged a feminist bullying together, only because the other party loves themselves and has the will to get married. What they explore together is money.

Facing the attitude of Wang Na's family, Liu Jun's mother smiled and became very angry. In front of all relatives and friends, she took out a bank card from her bag and threw it on Wang Na's clothes: "Don't change your mind, you are so expensive!" ! I can't afford to lose this person, buy myself face money! "

Wang Na was at a loss. Does this mean interrupting the wedding? She is in a dilemma. This bank card was not accepted, and it was not accepted. The scene was once extremely embarrassing.

Unexpectedly, Wang Na's mother came out of nowhere, picked up the bank card from her daughter's hand and put it in her pocket immediately, with a successful expression: "Just give it, just give it!" Let's go on! "

After all, the change fee was paid, but Liu Jun's mother was very angry. She called the MC to suspend the wedding. It is illogical to suspend the wedding after paying the change fee. In order to make Wang Na less ashamed, Liu Jun begged his mother to let the wedding continue, saying that everything would wait until the wedding was over. Liu Jun's mother couldn't stand her baby son's pleading and finally agreed to let the wedding go on. Everything seems to be back on track, but in Liu Jun's heart, Wang Na's kindness and simplicity are veiled.

The temptation of the Wangs seems to have won everything, but they have lost Liu Jun's trust in her and Liu Jun's mother's hope and blessing. Imagine that if Wang Na entered the door, her future life would be better.

Changing one's mouth is a sense of ceremony in the wedding, and changing one's mouth into a red envelope also represents parents' blessing to the couple. It is a naive behavior to measure your position in the other person's heart with money. But the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to deteriorate, which indirectly affected the happiness of husband and wife.

What do you think of the sudden change of fees at the wedding? How reasonable is the change fee for this package?

What would you do if you encountered such a problem?