Why do people always want to see you embarrassed?

I like to watch other people’s jokes because of the flaws in human nature. This is a pacifier to balance the anxiety in people’s lives.

It is part of human nature to like to see others embarrassed. Humans are social animals, and most of the motivation for life comes from the gap caused by comparison with others. People envy those who have a successful career, a happy family, and a social reputation, and they will work hard in that direction to become the person they envy.

But the social reality is that most people live an ordinary life. Pursuing ideals without success will make life miserable and lose the motivation to move forward. If you are not as good as you are, you are more than you are below. When you see that others are having the same stumbling days as you are, or even worse than yourself, you will get a little comfort in your heart, and you will be more balanced, and you can continue to live with a relatively peaceful mentality.

Just like the protagonist's unlucky experience in a movie is particularly popular with the audience, it is this psychology that is at work, and the audience can gain psychological balance from other people's misfortune. In the workplace ecosystem, the relationship between colleagues is both cooperative and competitive. Who can say that when you see others making a fool of yourself, your first reaction is not to secretly rejoice.

People who want to see other people’s jokes all day long are destined to be unhappy people, people who have not found the meaning of their lives, and people who are worried about others seeing their jokes. He is a person who has a very low self-esteem and is not enlightened mentally.

Afraid of being laughed at by others. People who laugh at others are also particularly afraid of being laughed at. He may think that he is too important. He is used to seeing other people's jokes and thinks that others are the same as him, but others may not care about his affairs. Don't think that the whole world is paying attention to you and others have no time to pay attention to you. People have their own happiness to pursue, so they have no time to deal with your nonsense.

People who like to watch other people’s jokes will have no good results and will not get lasting happiness. We should still put our own happiness first in life and not base our happiness on the misfortunes of others. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you, only encourage them.