My husband is having an affair. What should I do? Now we have a four-year-old son. I send messages to scold San Xiao every day, but she doesn't reply to any of them.

If you really want to solve the problem, you must first find out the key to it.

Your husband is having an affair. The main problem lies with your husband because he is irresponsible. Even if others seduce him, he has the ability to control his behavior as an adult.

Even if there is no such mistress in the world, it is inevitable that your husband will not have an affair with others.

So don't waste your energy on finding a mistress, but talk to your husband.

An affair is a matter of principle and cannot be tolerated. If your husband doesn't repent, suggest a divorce, otherwise you will be constantly hurt and unable to maintain your marriage. Such an irresponsible man is no longer worthy of your love, and blind love will only bring you harm!

Our happiness is in our own hands, the result of our own choice, not given by others. Be responsible for your own happiness! Bravely say no to the unbearable state in life! What hurts most is not the tragic experience, but the acquiescence to those experiences.