How to treat the mandatory requirement to give up your seat on the bus?

Aunt thinks the young man must give up his seat.

However, young people are unwilling.

So aunt sat on his lap.

The picture suddenly froze.

Aunt is fighting for a special seat for the elderly, the sick and the disabled, but ordinary passengers can still sit in this seat as usual when no one is sitting. "The label of the old, the weak and the sick is only a moral reminder, not a rigid legal provision. It is not that only the old, the weak and the sick can sit. "

It seems that the aunt's request is not unreasonable, and the young man's claim is not illegal. Such a wonderful "seat-seeking" move is really incredible. According to the police officer of Nanjing Metro, through the vigorous advocacy of the society, the proportion of young people giving up their seats to the elderly, the sick, the disabled and pregnant passengers on the subway is still relatively high.

Two groups of passengers on Metro Line 4 had a seat dispute, and then they scratched their hair and beat each other. An eyewitness told reporters that there were four passengers in the dispute and about six passengers on the other side. At that time, when the train was driving near Jiaomen West Station, I don't know who said, "We are not feeling well. Let's sit down." The two groups had an argument at once and hit it off soon. Two groups of passengers, male and female, scratch each other's hair and beat each other; Some people's shoes were trampled off, and some people's bracelets were torn to pieces; A man tried to dissuade him and shouted "calm down, calm down"; A short man picked up the shoes on the ground and hit the other person's head, and was besieged by many people; The scene is very chaotic. After the train arrived at the station, several train staff got on the train and stopped it, and took the two of them off the train.

Similar news emerges one after another. What do you think of being asked to give up your seat?

Netizen's answer

Take precautions before they happen. After getting on the bus, take the seat and pretend to be a dead pig to sleep. Why don't you wake up?

Always look at the old man who let you give up your seat with affectionate eyes. No matter whether he scolds you, beats you or accuses you, you just need to influence him with loving eyes.

The sharp-eyed bitch cursed in the street: "God, you are shameless, you are shameless, you want me to give up my seat, and you still don't let people live." Oh, the immortal thing is killing people. "

Righteously, he held his lower back with his hands and pretended to be pregnant in October. Halfway through, he said, "Oh, my stomach hurts again. The doctor said that I can't move if I have threatened abortion. If I miscarry, your face will be covered with blood. I feel dizzy and scared. "

To respect the old and love the young is the embodiment of social responsibility. We respect the elderly because they used to be the main labor force in this world. They built our world, and we are grateful to let their children serve the society and the country better. We care about children, because the future China belongs to these people. Only when they grow up healthily can the country have a long history. Not because they are weak, but because of our inner beliefs and persistence! I believe that most people in China, even pseudo-patriots, have the most basic sense of social responsibility, but why is no one willing to continue this position in a system that could have a virtuous circle? The reason is simple, someone is taking advantage of our kindness! If you don't listen, sometimes you show sincerity, and others will only think you are a fool! ! Because the most basic trust between people has collapsed! ! ! In a society without trust, kindness cannot be a virtue! ! !

It is not a case that the old man forced the young man to give up his seat. Some young people give up, while others ignore it. It's hard to say whether this is right or wrong. Once an old man quarreled with a young man. After the young man got out of the way, the old man was still cursing the street and cursing his mother. Of course, I want to sit as an old man, an uneducated thing ~ I really want to say that you are educated by shouting on the bus?

It is quite impolite for some disadvantaged passengers to force young passengers to give up their seats, and their arrogance is extremely arrogant. I've seen it twice. Once, the old man around me asked to give up his seat, but the young man refused. He began to swear, and his mouth was full of ugly words with personal insults. He also claimed to beat him up for his parents, and finally he was almost persuaded to slap the young man. That kind of arrogance full of evil thoughts and cruelty has no kindness of the old man at all, and he is a local ruffian.

For some time, the problem of giving up seats on buses and subways, especially the problem that the elderly ask young people to give up their seats, has attracted more and more public attention.

On the one hand, it reflects the public's concern about the construction of public morality; On the other hand, it also reflects the society's impatience with the elderly constantly forcing young people to give up their seats on buses and subways.

In particular, some elderly people's overbearing behavior, even beating and cursing behavior, has greatly damaged the prestige of the elderly and aroused social resentment.

This matter has been full of twists and turns, and it has become a topic of discussion and special discussion on the Internet. A very important reason is that life in our country is really stable and relatively rich now. People's attention has long been divorced from food, clothing, housing and transportation, and has shifted to all aspects of people's lives, especially the construction of China people's public morality and personal morality.

A mature and sound society, in order to reflect and realize its fairness and justice, often gives special care to the vulnerable groups in society, and the old, the weak, the sick and the disabled are the objects of care. Generally, a country will give social members the obligation to take care of the old, the weak, the sick and the disabled from many aspects such as law, morality, religion and policy. The Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly, the Law on the Protection of the Disabled, the Law on the Protection of Minors and the Law on the Protection of Women's Rights and Interests promulgated and implemented in China clearly stipulate the legal rights enjoyed by the elderly, the weak, the sick and the disabled, that is, give the general public the corresponding obligation to act or not to act.

Experiences shared by netizens

Maggie: something really bad happened to me in the third trimester. My sister and I went home after a pregnancy test on the bus. An old woman came over and could tell at a glance what I was going to give birth to, insisting that I give her my seat. My sister said she was pregnant and couldn't give it to you. Who knows that the old man said: I have a fucking heart attack! Say that finish no matter what, just pour it on my stomach. Fortunately, my sister stopped me, otherwise I don't know what would happen.

In fact, I found that most people who ask for their seats on the bus now are older people, and I specially selected some little girls or pregnant girls, because they may look bullying and have thin skin, and they will give up their seats after saying a few words. They go to the supermarket to buy eggs every day, and they never feel tired. They get tired as soon as they get on the bus. I also heard the old man's conversation, saying that he would go to a supermarket far away to buy tofu. Anyway, the bus costs nothing, and some people give up their seats. In fact, it is not easy for young people to go to work and they are under great pressure.

In the face of exploitation, accusations and even insults from superiors and superiors, we can submit to humiliation in every way, but most people are powerless to resist. The most is to resign and give up your position. Why can't we understand that an old man who is weaker than himself on the bus resists and even fights back, only to be kidnapped by a little morality and give up his seat? Look at your reasons: many things, fatigue, great pressure, the other side forcibly interferes with their own freedom, and the other side relies on the old to sell the old. . . What makes me even more chilling, however, is that in another similar question, the respondents have various ways to deal with refutation, which can be described as "infinite wisdom" What I see is not only the fact of evading and denying my seat and responsibility, but also the ugly and unclean soul.

It's mutual at all times. The young man offered his seat to the old man, who said thank you. In fact, young people nowadays are very tired. It is normal to take a bus for more than two hours in big cities now. Tired of a day's work, I have to give my seat to my aunt who just finished square dancing. There is a story that I used to give up my seat every time I took the bus. Once an old man got on the bus and I offered him his seat. He sat down without saying thank you. After two stops, I met a young man who got on the bus, as if I knew him. Then the old man grabbed the seat as soon as he got off the bus and asked the young man to come and sit down. I've been standing by. I feel that I gave him my seat and he didn't give it back to me after he left, which really chilled me. Since then, every time I get on the bus, I walk backwards. Only those with inconvenient legs and feet and children will give me their seats. Everything else will be ignored.