Why don't those smart women send their own messages in the circle of friends?

With the convenience of life now, WeChat has become a place where people record their lives. Send a circle of friends to express some feelings and feelings; Traveling abroad, I saw the beautiful scenery, made a circle of friends and recorded my feelings. Or cook something delicious at home, send a circle of friends and leave traces of life. Many people like to make friends because they want to share their happiness with more people.

Too often, we find that too many people disappear from the circle of friends. They are by no means friends. Their lives are a mess. Isn't it worth mentioning? Don't be silly. In fact, many times, this is not the case. Many people don't make friends, but life is very interesting. They don't send it because they don't want to. Not long ago, I interviewed women who live a more comfortable life, and they told me why they didn't want to make friends. @ Mrs. Liu, the older you get, the more you know pragmatism. In fact, when I was young, I also liked to make friends. At that time, no matter whether it was a small surprise or a good mood, I confided among my friends. But then slowly, life got better and better, but I was not in the mood to spend it in a circle of friends. Of course, it's not that the circle of friends is not well distributed, but that you know how you live. You don't have to know the whole world.

With the growth of age, people become more practical, and it is better to solve problems with actions than with emotional language. Too lazy to do meaningless things. @ Lao Wang, live your own life and enjoy yourself. I have always been a person who doesn't like making friends. Actually, it's not because I don't want to make friends. Many people say that making friends can let people who are interested in us know about our life now. Actually, everyone is very busy now. There will be many people watching you. Most of the friends circle is also a nodding acquaintance. People who really care about you will take care of you in other places even if they don't make friends. In addition, life is your own, and you don't need to disclose your private life.

More and more women are reluctant to send their friends. Because they feel that their life is very good, they don't need other people's comments and recognition, and they are also smart and know what they need. Many times, it is not a bad thing to stay away from friends. Because people grow up, they gradually become pragmatic, and gradually stop putting life on illusory things, but pay attention to their actual life.