After ordering hot pot worth RMB 20,000 on the first date, the man skipped the order. What is the appropriate range for the meal expenses on the first date?

The cost of the meal on the first date should be within what you can afford, and should be about the same as what you spend on weekdays. You cannot blindly choose high-cost places, which is a kind of pressure for both men and women. In fact, just choose delicious food and eat in a place with an elegant environment. High-cost places may not necessarily be delicious. Recently, a woman went on a first date with a man to eat hot pot and spent more than 20,000 yuan. In the end, the red wine was returned, and the cost of the dishes was as high as more than 6,000 yuan. The man saw that the cost was too high and he didn't want to bear it, so he ran away. This made the woman unhappy and exposed the matter. The man's behavior is indeed inappropriate, and the woman's behavior is also wrong. After all, such high-consumption places are reserved for women. There was a joke like this that was popular on the Internet before. Whether a man loves you or not depends on whether he is willing to spend money for you. ?The woman in this incident probably thought the same way. If you really want to date me, you should be willing to pay me back. Secondly, I also wanted to test whether the man had money. Sadly, the man ran away. The woman fetched water from the bamboo basket but failed, and had to pay for half of the meal out of her own pocket. It's obviously inappropriate to have a first date in such a high-cost place. If both the man and the woman are wealthy and can afford to spend money, there is nothing wrong with that. It is obvious that neither the man nor the woman in this matter is rich. In fact, the purpose of a first date is to get to know each other, talk to each other, and have a meal. There is no need to choose a high-cost place just for testing or to save face. Therefore, for the first date, you should eat at a restaurant that you can afford. The boy will foot the bill, so he won't feel too bad. If the woman pays the bill, she can afford it. It is best for two people to have an AA system, both of which are within the other's consumption level. Don't be like the woman in this incident who chose a restaurant that was beyond the consumption range of both parties. The result turned into a farce and made people laugh.