I want to chat with girls about topics that girls generally like to talk about. I also want to give you an example of how to start a conversation about a certain topic, because I am not very good at t

I want to chat with girls about topics that girls generally like to talk about. I also want to give you an example of how to start a conversation about a certain topic, because I am not very good at talking.

The first level of skills. Focus on the chat itself, rather than the chat topic. Many people don’t know how to chat with girls. They often run out of topics while talking. But I think: there is no need to prepare topics for chatting. ! I can chat with a girl all night long without making any preparations or preparing any topics in advance. Theoretically, I can chat with the girl for as long as she wants to chat with you.

Topic chatting method: When we chat, we always want to focus on the topics we have thought about in advance, but do not pay attention to the chat itself. So we often encounter the following situations: For example: Me: Have you eaten? (Bringing up a topic) MM: Eat me: What are you doing? (Bringing up another topic) MM: Internet Me: How is your weather? (Bringing up another topic) MM: That’s okay. Me: Are you busy lately? (Bringing up another topic) MM: Not busy Me: ... (There is no topic to talk about, because the topic will always be finished) Me: Oh, that’s it, I just want to call you and ask you what you are doing, then you Keep busy, bye MM: Bye because at this time what you are thinking in your mind is always, what should I say? What topics do you talk about with MM? This often leads to a dead end. When you finish talking about the topic you prepared in advance, you will find that you are dumb! The correct idea of ????chatting is: focus on the chat itself, not the topic of the chat, not what to chat about, but how to chat.