Afraid of the bride's headache, the groom kowtowed instead of her hand. Why do you have the custom of kowtowing when you get married?

The groom kowtows with his hands instead of the bride's head. The groom is really warm. I thought that the day after we got married, we went to my husband's uncle's house to kowtow to his ancestors. Actually, I really don't understand. My husband's uncle's house is very close to my husband's house. According to the truth, customs should be the same, but no one in my husband's family makes me kowtow. Go to his uncle's house and kowtow to me. I was wearing a short skirt with high heels at that time. Maybe all girls know that it's easy to get naked by kneeling and kowtowing in such clothes. But his aunt kept pulling me to kowtow. Although I was annoyed and didn't kowtow at that time, now I am really sensitive to the word kowtow.

First of all, kowtowing may be a local custom. There is no custom of kowtowing when getting married there, and I don't understand why I kowtow. It may be thanks to parents for their upbringing, or it may be thanks to ancestors for leaving their surnames. Some people say, marry a chicken and follow a dog. Since you are married here, you must respect the local customs. I really want to abide by them, but who can respect me with so many people?

Second, the groom's movements are warm. In the case, the groom's behavior is very warm. Worried that the bride would knock her head, she reached out to pad her hands. I remember when we got married, my husband and aunt kept holding me down and had to kneel down. I also turned my eyes to my husband for help. My husband shrugged and said, Nothing, I'm standing behind you. My god, now that I think about it, I really might as well not marry.

Third, filial piety to parents does not have to be manifested in kowtowing. Maybe someone is going to spray me. Now that you are married, you have to obey other people's rules. Note that when we got married, we didn't need to kneel at my husband's house, but when I went to his uncle's house the next day, a group of strangers I didn't know surrounded me, men and women, but they kept kneeling on their ancestors I had never seen before. To tell the truth, I really hope this custom of kowtowing will be thrown away quickly.