La La Land —— About the Love and Parting of Dreams

This is not my first time to watch a love movie or an inspirational movie, but this time, I was impressed by the director's lens and narrative techniques.

La La Di, a film with a simple story, is vaguely close to our life. Therefore, the separation of the hero and heroine after five years is regrettable but reasonable. The spoony man is pathetic, but he seems a little stupid. Women who marry others are affectionate to men, but who stipulates that a person must wait for an uncertain encounter?

At the beginning of the film, the crowd dancing on the road reminds me of High School Musical, which is also a question about the title of the film. Then the hero and heroine meet and pass by.

This man is a man obsessed with jazz. He thinks jazz is not a fixed form. Even the same piece of music can play different feelings because of different moods. He is not a conformist, but he has the ideal of sticking to jazz. His dream is to open a jazz club and play the real jazz in his heart. So even if his playing ability is good, he often loses his playing job.

The hostess is a person who has a dream of performing, not for fame and fortune, but simply likes and wants to perform, but because of the failure of countless interviews, she doubts whether she is really suitable to be an actor.

The first time they met was on the highway; Meet for the second time in the bar, at this time, the woman is attracted by the performance of the man; The third time was at a friend's party. The woman played a trick on the man and the man saved the woman. When they met for the third time, their relationship began to change from strangers to friends. From then on, the hostess began to understand the man and gradually became fond of jazz. When the man learned that the woman wanted to be an actress, he began to help her seek inspiration for her performance. Finally, the woman left her boyfriend's family dinner and went to the cinema to find the man.

Finally, two people who are equally persistent in their dreams came together.

They help and encourage each other, but after all, life can be well spent without encouragement.

In order to give the female host a better life, the male host chose to accept the invitation of a friend who had refused and became the keyboard player of the band. The hostess is planning her monologue wholeheartedly.

Men who join the band have a thriving career and spend less and less time with women. Suddenly, the woman began to feel that she had a distance from the man. They are no longer comrades who are obsessed with their dreams and constantly degenerate but support each other. Women who begin to feel inferior in their hearts think that men have forgotten their dreams, have begun to be satisfied with their present lives, and are no longer people in the world. As a result, the romantic candlelight dinner turned into a quarrel and broke up in discord.

The band is getting more and more busy, and the man is absent-minded during rehearsal, but he can't go to his girlfriend's stage play. The hostess looked at the empty audience. Even though she did her best to finish the performance, she was unhappy, angry, jealous, unwilling and wronged when the man appeared in front of her. I thought of it all this time, and it broke up again.

This time, they began to examine their relationship.

When he was decadent, the man received a phone call from the filmmaker. He was looking for that woman. He sat up in shock. This is a woman's dream, and he must convey the news.

After driving for several hours, the man came to her hometown. He called her in the same way as before.

Once again, this woman decided to move forward for her dream.

They agreed that this time, everyone should go forward for their dreams, do what they like and let go of everything.

Five years passed quickly, and the hostess became a famous actress, while the man practiced his ideal-jazz club with the name given by the hostess.

A woman married a woman by mistake, and now her husband takes him into a man's pub.

The sound of the piano reminds me of the song where they met. At that moment, they seemed to see infinite possibilities.

It's just possible, that's all.

At the end of the song, the woman and her husband left silently.

This is the end of the movie.

Many people joked that this film is not suitable for couples to watch and it is easy to break up. Most of the reasons given are that this film will remind you of your predecessor's goodness. I don't think so. I don't think this movie is suitable for couples, especially those who haven't planned their future yet.

The montage of the ending tells us that the infinite possibilities are like fairy tales, which can be met but not sought. Even if it is only a small difference, the result will be very different.

Everyone has their own dreams, which may last a lifetime. We will change ourselves to cater to the world for love, even if you have resisted, just like a man joining a band, in order to give her a better life. But in the process of change, we quietly changed what each other likes. Just like in the film, the woman thinks that the man has given up his dream after joining the band. What the woman values is the man's persistence in his dream.

The reason why it is not suitable for lovers to watch is because when we realize this change, we are not ourselves who once loved each other.

Everyone thought they had done a good thing for each other, but slowly found that the distance between us became far away.

If you can't figure out whether to compromise with the world, it's not surprising to break up.

Another point is the cruelty of reality. It's like that although men and women love each other deeply, women marry someone else five years later. The so-called encouragement, so give up everything, one person takes it seriously, while another person expects that even if you give up everything, one day you will still remember me. Different ideas also create different endings.

No one has the obligation to wait for someone, and no one asks you to be infatuated. Affection is always ruthless and negative, and many times it may be self-love.

Of course, the love in those years is beautiful, but it will gradually fade away in front of time. In the face of long loneliness, how many people can persist?

If you think about it here, it may be the reason why many couples break up, but it's just a mockery.

If love is so fragile, how can it be called love?

Many people regret why two people who love each other so much are so separated. When the music reminded them of what might be presented in pictures, their eyes were already wet. I think this ending may be a little regrettable, but it is also quite realistic.

Waiting is a process of gradually losing sense of security.

What moved me most was not their love, but their persistence in their dreams. Especially when the hostess interviewed for the last time, it almost made me cry, because of my personal experience, but I really think it is so precious to have a dream and stick to it.