How should a person who has been seriously injured in childhood and feelings heal himself?

Childhood passed and feelings happened. If you live in these bad memories, it must be very painful, and life has to go on. Personal feelings can be improved from the following aspects: 1, cultivate several hobbies, preferably outdoor activities, make friends with three or five friends, go fishing, climb mountains, relax and live a natural life with bright spring. The best way to end a painful relationship is to start a new one. Be bold and have a pure relationship. As long as you like it, you must dare to try. I wish you happiness and health!

Tell a true story, my mother was beaten by my grandmother since she was a child, just because she was raised by her grandmother's parents, and all the other brothers and sisters were raised by her parents. So she was treated differently for 20 years. She doesn't have anything from anyone else born to the same mother. She was depressed for many years, but now my mother lives happily because she understands.

Psychologists say that a person's character is formed in childhood. Maybe some things will last a lifetime, but tragedy still happens. Isn't it alive? Your death is a joke! It is because of being wronged that we should take the initiative to learn to let go and forget. If you are not strong, no one can help you. Your strength will make others look at you with new eyes, be kind to yourself and be the best you can be. You are very lucky. thank you

I don't know what kind of serious injuries you suffered when you were a child. Let me tell you something about me!

I was entrusted to my grandparents by my parents before I was two years old. My grandfather is from Hangzhou and his family rules are very strict. My father didn't come out to fight for his family until he was 65,438+04 years old because he had many brothers and sisters. Listen to my mother, my father is also a master at school, giving up his studies too early and shouldering the burden of family too early, which leads to countless regrets in my heart. I don't know what the rich family is like, but I don't know the rest of the poor family. I live in this family, and everyone is struggling for a living. Therefore, the education of this stubborn child is mainly based on flesh education. The only people who can feel the warmth are grandma and mom, but my mom's place of work was nearly 200 kilometers away from me, so I could only see it when she was on family leave. I can clearly feel the heroic resentment in my childhood now. I have called in my heart countless times: When I grow up ... that kind of helplessness, I didn't shed a tear when my grandfather and father died. Maybe I have never been cured from the bottom of my heart, but at the age of 36, I reconciled with my inner demon and finally turned my anger into safety.

Generally speaking, people who are too grumpy in childhood are also easily frustrated in adulthood. My core reason is that they are sensitive and easy to go to extremes. Because of the lack of too much love in childhood, they have great expectations for the other half. To put it bluntly, they simply want each other to love themselves like the Virgin Mary, and presuppose various perfect love scenes in their hearts, which is far from reality. The gap between dreams and reality is too big, which makes them feel that they have paid so much. How can it still be like this? I was moved by what I did. Why is the other party indifferent?

Time will eventually turn all the wonderful things into dull ones. When I lost my fantasy and returned to the fireworks world after many years, I found that the world is beautiful, and it all depends on when you let go of yourself.

"Knowledge changes fate", and learning is the best panacea to cure childhood and emotional trauma.

Uncle Lei Feng, who educated and influenced generations of China people, became an orphan at the age of seven. My father was killed by Japanese devils, my brother was injured by child labor and ruthlessly driven away by capitalists. My brother starved to death, and my mother hanged herself because she couldn't stand the bullying of the landlord. Lei Feng lived by begging since he was a child, with nasty sores and strings hanging on his body. Until the liberation of his hometown, he "changed from a ghost to a man."

After liberation, the government gave him a house and land and sent him to school for free. 1956 graduated from senior primary school, but could not attend junior high school for economic reasons. He first went back to his hometown to farm, then worked as a correspondent in the village, then as an orderly in the county, then as a tractor in Tuanshanhu Farm, 1958 as a worker in Angang, and 1960 joined the army. No matter what job you do, "do a line, love a line, and drill a line." During his lifetime, he won dozens of honors at all levels, won second-class merit and third-class merit, and served as a representative of Fushun Municipal People's Congress. In particular, shenyang military area command called for "learning from Lei Feng, catching Lei Feng and surpassing Lei Feng", and he was elected as an "activist of the whole army to learn from Mao Zedong", with only four people in the country. On August 5th1962,65438, he died in the line of duty. On March 5th 1963, China Youth Daily published the inscription "Learn from Comrade Lei Feng" by President Mao Zedong. This is a sentence without a subject, which means that people who "learn from Lei Feng" also include President Mao Zedong himself.

"There are no seeds at home, and men should be self-reliant." A good childhood is a memory, a pride, and a miserable childhood is a wake-up call and a motivation. Come out and face it bravely. Tomorrow's sun has witnessed your childhood and is more willing to embrace your smile and now.

The unpleasant things in my childhood are still looming in my mind. At that time, the national policy allowed parents to have a second child. I am the eldest daughter and younger brother. My father works in other places and goes home once a year. My mom? I go to work every day. I just started school at the age of six. I do most of the housework at home, including carrying water, washing vegetables, washing clothes, steaming rice, and sometimes taking my brother. If I don't do it, I will be beaten. Modern young people really don't believe me and think I'm talking nonsense. Actually, it's my personal experience At that time, my classmates downstairs said that my mother preferred boys to girls, and then I grew up slowly. I also understand the hard work of my mother. A lot of things are really not available.

Colleagues around me are like this. I think they did a good job. My father left early when he was young, but unfortunately he found a depressed woman when he got married! I pay my monthly salary home to my children's wives, and completely change a shy person with my indomitable inner character. Wherever I go now, I am always cheerful and good at communication. Go to the construction site to work after work and buy school supplies for children. My children are very competitive in their studies and are among the best in school! Whenever he is asked about his views on life, he will say that life is not easy and it is even harder to live. You are not strong and no one can help you!