What is the most important thing to know when chasing girls?

1. There's no need to be forced to blend in.

2. The requirements for life-long partners should not be too harsh, just like the requirements for everything in life. There are always pros and cons: chasing you is too urgent, you feel burdened, chasing you is not tight, and you feel not enthusiastic enough. Gentle people sometimes appear weak, strong and close to tyranny. Too many fantasies are unrealistic, and a capable housekeeper feels tacky. Where are the people who have only strengths and no weaknesses? Is there a perfect person or thing in the world? Ask yourself, how perfect are you? You must have thought about this kind of problem more than once. I think the most important thing is the kindness in nature, the tenderness in nature and the open mind. With these three things, everything else can be cultivated gradually, and with these three things, even if you encounter big and small storms in the future, it will not become a tragedy.

3. Don't contact again after breaking up, which will only increase your sadness; But don't take the initiative to delete the contact information, which seems to have no pattern.

4. A good girl, who is lovelorn or has a bad job, will need more care than usual, so she will communicate more with others. But after her state is adjusted, she will return to her own circle, ignore you and even forget your kindness. What isn't yours will leave eventually. Don't lie to yourself. Did this sentence blow the hearts of many spare tires?

5. Regret after parting, caring after not loving, high self-esteem and aimless kindness are the most useless things in the human world, and also in emotional life.

6. After breaking up, if you can still be friends with ex, or the relationship between them is not deep; Either there is still one party who is unwilling.

7. In love, there is a "lock-key law": if a key can open many locks, it is a master key; If a lock can be opened by many keys, it is a bad lock. Specifically, if you can touch many people's hearts, then you are very attractive; If you can be moved by many people, it doesn't mean that you are easily satisfied, happy, and optimistic. You are a person who has no principles and bottom line, and you will degrade yourself after all.

8. If you want to know whether a girl is suitable for being together, it depends on her family upbringing. Nine times out of ten, girls taught by democratic families can't be wrong. Autocratic parents have to take care of everything and spoil girls. If you marry someone else, the hard times are yet to come. And you can't rely on a boy, just look at what kind of people his friends are. If nine times out of ten friends around him eat, drink, go whoring and gamble, it is difficult for him to lead an honest and clean life.

9. If you are crazy about someone, you are definitely not worthy of him/her. So try to be a crush on the other person and leave yourself a little choice.