Don't believe what men 10 say.

It is true that women are auditory animals, so in feelings, many women easily lose their minds because of men's sweet words, knowing that this man is love rat, knowing that there is a fire pit ahead, but willing to be a moth to the fire.

Do you think these women are really stupid? Actually, it is not. When facing people they don't love, they are smarter than anyone else. However, they would rather believe this man's frivolous oath than give up self-protection.

And these women, often in the end, are still making excuses for those men when they are all hurt. They will say, in fact, he must have loved me.

Woman, I don't know if you've ever heard a saying that when a lover's oath blows, God will laugh. I hope you can understand that it is right to be naive about love. I believe that there is nothing wrong with the person you love, but you must have your own bottom line. Some words really can't be listened to.

For example, if these words come from men, I think you must not believe them.

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It's okay. I will support you.

When men love a woman especially, they often like to express their love with promises. For example, I want to give you the best life and make you the happiest woman in the world.

Can you say what they said is a lie? Of course not. However, I think this is just what a man said on the spur of the moment when he was passionate.

When feelings change from passion to dullness, the firm "I raised you" will often become "I raised you". See the difference?

The first sentence is flattery, and the last sentence is disdain.

Remember, when a man loves you, he can give the whole world, but when he doesn't love you, spending every penny on him will make him feel bad, and the day with his palms up will never be better.

Because you never know when a man's heart will change.

Therefore, at any time, the ability to make money is very important for women. Because you can make money, you can be raised by a man with peace of mind. This is called icing on the cake. Don't give up for a man. If you want others to help you in time, you will definitely fall into a very miserable situation.

So, if you ask me what you should say when that man says he wants to support you, I want to tell you, please say thank you sincerely and work hard with him.

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It's very good of you to do this.

After doing a new project, I met many girls who want to lose weight. Many people are obviously tempted, but they still have to discuss with their husbands.

As a result of the discussion, many men said, "Don't toss about, you'll be fine."

Hehe, yes, you are the best in men's eyes without spending money. But is this really the case? Of course not.

Think about it, when one day you become a yellow-faced woman, will your man still take you and look at you again?

If a woman is an auditory animal, then a man must be a visual animal. They all like beautiful things, and they want to stand beside themselves, so that they can have face.

Therefore, we should lose weight, buy clothes, and take care of our skin. At any time, women should not give up the possibility of getting better, because men will love you more and more only if you get better and better.

To say the least, when you are good enough, this man doesn't love you, and he will love you more.

So, please love yourself.

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In the future, I will. ......

As I said before, men like to promise women. In the future, I will definitely make a lot of money. In the future, I will definitely buy you a big house. I will definitely give you the best church wedding in the future. In the future, I will. ......

But dear, I hope you understand that the future is better than the plain present. When a man always talks about the future, but never promises it for you, it can only show that this man is not practical at all.

Whether in love or marriage, what we need must be a man who can give himself a sense of security, not a man who says everything well but always dreams.

Moreover, the man who always perfunctory said that he would marry you in the future must not love you. He's leaving himself a way out. Maybe you're just a spare tire.

I remember watching Struggle, Charlene Marilynn Dangelo always wanted to marry Lu Tao, but Lu Tao always said that when I earned more money, I would be more awesome. So Charlene Marilynn Dangelo looked at the wedding of Xiangnan and Yang Xiaoyun and said with special envy: Actually, I want one like this.

Later, it turned out that Lu Tao was indeed an unreliable person. Although I admit that he loves Charlene Marilynn Dangelo, he really loves himself more.

Therefore, instead of believing in a man's illusory promises, it is better to believe what a man can give you now, especially when this man just pays lip service and never puts it into practice.

You are so good and your youth is so expensive. Don't wait all the time. Not worth it.

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Smart women must live a transparent life and know what men should and should not listen to. Smart women must live smart and know what they should and should not do. Smart women must live boldly, accept men's kindness, but control their own lives.