Why do some parents lose their temper easily when helping their children with their homework?

There are three main reasons why some parents always make a hullabaloo about and even hit people when helping their children write.

First, children are slow-witted, make many mistakes, refuse to change after repeated instruction, and parents are impatient. Parents are usually primary school students and need help with their homework. They are in the stage of brain development, and their intellectual development is not consistent. Some children are not sensitive enough and flexible enough to solve problems. They don't understand knowledge fast enough. Parents have taught them several times, but they are impatient when they see that their children are still ignorant. Parents corrected the mistakes in their homework, but their children's acceptance was limited. He couldn't remember them for a moment, and then he made the same mistake again. Parents felt that their children were careless and flew into a rage.

Second, children's learning attitude makes parents angry. (1) inattention. Some children are weak in self-control, lively and active, and easily distracted. When doing their homework, they want to drink water for a while and go to the toilet for a while. When someone is talking around, he wants to interrupt, and his family wants to join in the fun while watching TV, but they can't do their homework at ease. His parents couldn't wait to nail him to the seat. When they see the child absent-minded, they can't help yelling loudly and hitting him for a long time. 2 carelessness. Some children are clever, but careless, and always make mistakes that they shouldn't make. Parents want to correct, but they can't figure out the law of their mistakes. 3 delay. Obviously there is not much homework, and the children can't finish it. Parents can't go to bed early after a hard day and lose patience.

Third, parents take the opportunity to vent negative emotions. Parents will inevitably encounter unsatisfactory things at work, be criticized by leaders and have friction with colleagues. Because of the uneven distribution of work tasks, adults can't lose their temper in the workplace, and anger should be tolerated by others. There must be an outlet for the backlog of negative emotions, and children who have no resistance will become punching bags. For example, when you see a child's homework is not serious, you think of a colleague fishing. You can't blame him face to face at work, and when you go home, you will transfer your anger to the children. At this time, parents should think about whether their actions are bullying others. If they are bullied by leading colleagues, will they feel better?